Since it's not pride month anymore and some people seem to forget about our enby friends, I now present to you: JUST USE THE RIGHT PRONOUNS!!!
Best thing you can do to be an LGBTQ+ ally: use people's preferred names and pronouns! It's ok if you accidentally make a mistake, just gently correct yourself to their pronouns
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I know it's pride month. I know we're supposed to be happy about who we are and unabashedly us this month.
But I've been through a lot since the beginning of this month alone. I have been told that my parents won't see me as trans because I'm not medically transitioning yet due to having no funds to do so. I've been told that my parents won't use my chosen name because I've only socially transitioned and my brain hasn't let me get into gear to change my name on my documents. I've pushed back, said they "don't have the right to not accept my chosen name" and I got shouted at and asked "What's on your birth certificate?" by my dad as I was leaving to go to a friend's because of this argument. I've been misgendered constantly, to my face and behind my back. I've been deadnamed to my face.
I had reservations about coming out to my parents. I was scared they wouldn't understand or just not accept it. Those reservations and my being scared was three (3) years ago. I had every reason to be scared. Not for myself then, but for myself three years down the line. Something I didn't realise all that time ago? That that reservation and fear should've also extending to my non-binary sibling. Someone who I thought was with me because we're both part of the LGBTQIA+. Someone who I've told about my gender journey. Someone I trusted.
Everytime I had pushed back on their points about my gender, saying "my gender is not yours to discuss." they would just say "but I want to talk about it now." or even a simple "DON'T YOU DARE!" to my sibling deadnaming me to my face I got a "Don't talk to me like that." from them. I have been forced into being small and quiet in my room. Staying out of the way of them so I wouldn't get into trouble for any reason, but that just yields more problems for them apparently. They have said I'm "rotting" in here. True. I am rotting, but not for the reasons they think. They are the reason I am rotting.
So happy Pride month. I'm glad I finally know who my real family are and I'm glad that my friends are them.
DEMIBOY
Definition: Demiboy (also known as Demiman, Demimale, Demiguy, Demilad, Demidude, or Demibloke) is a non-binary gender in which one is partially, but not fully, a boy, man or otherwise not fully masculine. They may or may not identify as another gender in addition to being partially a boy. The other part of one's gender can be any gender or combination of genders, including a lack of gender. Demiboy can be used regardless of AGAB. One can feel more or less like a boy. It varies depending on the individual. Some demiboys can experience physical discomfort or dysphoria.
Flag creator: @transrants (2014)
Colour meanings: The greys = a partial connection and the grey areas, the blue = manhood or masculinity, and the white = agender or non-binary identities.
VFLOWERGENDER
Definition: Vflowergender, also known as flowergender (not to be confused with the floragender by the same name), is a xenogender related to the Vocaloid flower in some way. This gender can also be written as ブイフラワgender or フラワgender. This may refer to a gender which changes when listening to music featuring flower, a gender which feels validated by flower, or something similar. This gender may also be a feminine-aligned or woman-aligned gender, and may be related to gender non-conformity, fluid gender expression, and androgyny, based on flower's canon gender and expression. It may also be used by individuals who feel that flower is the embodiment of one's gender, or who experience gender envy from flower. It may also be a kingender for flowerkin individuals (those who kin the Vocaloid specifically, not the plant). These are simply a few possible explanations of the identity; any gender related to flower can be considered vflowergender.
Flag creator: Unknown (2022)
Colour meanings: The colors of the vflowergender flag were color-picked from an official image of flower. Dark blue = connection to flower. Dark purple = goth and alternative aesthetics. Medium purple = gender envy. Purple = androgyny. White = inclusivity and validation. Light peach = gender euphoria. Peach = "blooming like a flower". Pink = headcanons. Dark pink = music.
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Sometimes I forget my gender is on the nonbinary spectrum (genderflux demiboy) and I think, “wow, this nonbinary person’s feelings and experiences are so similar to mine, more so than binary trans people’s” then I remember yeah. Because I’m not a binary trans guy. How do I keep forgetting this?
Demiboy: Someone whose gender is partially male, man, boy, or masculine-aligned. The other part(s) of the user's gender are intentionally unspecified with this label, for a broad umbrella. May be considered a multigender or genderfluid identity.
