#demidoe

Demifaunian is a term for when one only partially identifies as faunian (a multigender term where one is all genders except female and female-aligned ones.)

Demifaunetian is a term for when one only partially identifies as faunetian (a multigender term where one is all genders except 100% womanhood.)

Demifaein/Demidoeian is a term for when one only partially identifies as faein/doeian (a multigender term where one is all genders except male and male-aligned ones.)

I have days where I’m fine presenting AFAB and being perceived as AFAB.  I have days where I wish I had a deeper voice.  I have days where I wish I had a flatter chest.  I have days where I wish I looked more like a boy, but a very feminine/androgynous boy if that even makes any sense.

I think that’s just a fact of being demifaer that I have to try harder to accept and cope with.  My feelings fluctuate, my dysphoria fluctuates.  I’m not sure if I will ever have one true “body” I can be 100% comfortable in all the time because my feelings aren’t concrete... as is the struggle of being underneath the genderfluid umbrella.

If anyone has any advice or opinions on what I’ve said here, I’d really appreciate it if you could share with me.  I’m tagging this post with transmasc tags (even though I’m not transmasc myself) in hopes that the transmasc community can provide some insight as well.

Today's Gender of the Day is: Genderfae!

Genderfae is an identity that is fluid between multiple genders, but never male or masculine genders. Genderfae folks can experience fluctuation (called faeflux) or they can occasionally experience masculine genders (genderfaer). This gender falls under the genderfluid, demifluid, and multigender umbrellas. It is also a part of the genderfluid fragment gender system.

Genderfae can be paired with other identities - agenderfae and greyfae are two examples. Genderfaun is the counterpart identity that encompasses anything that isn't female or feminine.

Another name for this identity is genderdoe, but please do not think that using the imagery or idea of faeries for your identity is disrespectful or appropriative; this is a myth.