Reminder to treat the important people in your life as though they are valuable always because they are and the human experience constantly absorbs the message that it’s not. Then they get to feel happy and relieved and so do you for making someone you care about feel good
Bonus effect: this often starts a cycle of reciprocation that feels better as it evolves in depth and then you get reminders that you’re valuable too
Other bonus effect: if after some time it never starts a cycle of reciprocation, you gain the insight that you might want to re evaluate that persons involvement in your life because it has potential to be a sign that your well being isn’t a significant thought to them















