#dehviant

I'm gonna hug you. (づ｡◕‿‿◕｡)づ Cause I feel exactly the same way. Having that feeling that you have to be a certain way just to be accepted by a certain person or a group of people. It's painful. And it's wrong.

I totally agree! Why even fight for a man? I’d fight over the last cup of coffee before I’d fight over a man. Coffee can be ten times better. Especially if it’s made awesomely.

Because we want his babies? I don't even know. I'd probably fight for Rob if I HAD to, but shit, men are people too, and they can make their own decisions, so it really just makes us colossal bitches to deny men the ability/right to decide for themselves and other women the joys of loving men...

I'm glad that the men were giving out the positive comments. The world needs to end the women on women hate. And what ladyherondale said.

That isn't even right. I don't understand why people are so hateful. :(

Scrolling through Tumblr I came across a post from dehviant, one of the  lovely ladies I follow. She posted some December goals for herself this month. I liked it and scrolled passed, but it stayed in the back of my mind. Now, because of her post, I feel inspired to make some goals for myself as well to start this month off right. So...

December goals: -start running again, at least 3 times a week -strength train at least 3 times a week as well -squats!

-reduce the amount of sweets I eat (I have a big sweet tooth) -remember to take my multi-v everyday with my omega-3

So I kind of did like you advised, but instead of asking for clarification from him I took it upon myself to clarify myself and what I had said.

Because I got kinda freaked out that maybe he had taken what I had said (because texting sucks and ugh #BringBackLetters) wrong and like been offended or hurt, y'know? Like maybe it had come across like "OH, JOY, SUCH A CONVENIENT EXCUSE FOR ME TO TURN YOU DOWN cuz I don't really want to go with you lol". So I texted him and was like "so what I meant to say was that I'd love to go with you, but I'd hate for you to have been strong-armed into something you didn't plan on. No harm, no foul. :)"

So he texted back and, wouldn't you know it, he was like "I only have one bar of service up here so I've been leaving my phone on airplane mode". PFFFT. Isn't that always the way?! You start to panic you did something wrong but then it just turns out that it had nothing to do with you. ;P

But yeah so he was like "Don't even worry, you're fine". And that's it. :| SO I'm just taking that to mean we're still going and he does want to go with me...???

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SARAH this is why we're going to be best friends into the afterlife, I am telling you. There are gonna be ghosthunters of the future that are like "omg there is so much spiritual activity in here oh gosh oh gosh" and then they'll turn up their little doohickey to our ghostly frequency and we'll just be making each other laugh sO HARD and they'll be like "..."

A valid point/proposal, but somehow I doubt it. >> Mostly based on the fact that after I texted him back saying something like "Ha! I kinda figured when you mentioned my birthday and I've never told you it. ;P Well, I'm fine if you had other plans for the passes when you bought them." after nearly a full day now he still has not responded.

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Oh, definitely! If he still wanted to (begrudgingly) take me, then I'd totally go. :) But at this point I have no idea what he wants to do/is thinking.