Community Abroad: My experience traveling with an intentional community
Many students go abroad with the intent of gaining a sense of independence while navigating a new culture or country. Certainly, independence is a valuable experience to gain while abroad, learning to take that first-solo trip, adventuring off to explore the world from a new perspective, maybe even perhaps traveling abroad for the first time. During my undergraduate experience, I went abroad for the first time with this exact intent.
On my first program, I spent six months in Argentina and Chile through Wake Forestās Southern Cone program. I loved every minute I spent with my fellow Wake Forest Students. It has been two years since the program and still today when I walk by a friend from the āSoCoā program, we immediately reminisce, sharing memories of the moments we spent together both in and out of class. However, the program afforded me an incredible amount of independence. Long weekends meant an ample amount of time to travel the countries, and homestays spread across the city meant I didnāt see the other students from my program every day. In fact, sometimes I would go up to four days a week not seeing anyone from the program except for my homestay partner. I had endless freedom over deciding what to do with free time, and I loved every moment of it!
When I decided I would spend a second semester abroad, I knew I wanted to switch things up and try a new type of program. Originally, I thought this meant even more freedom than my previous program. I imagined directly enrolling in a university abroad for a semester, integrating myself entirely into college life abroad. When I found the International Honors Programās (IHP) Climate Change program, I fell in love with the theme and knew it would fit perfectly with my Global Environmental Studies major. But, the style of the program was entirely the opposite of what I had imagined for my semester. I was torn about traveling on a program that took me throughout three different countries on three different continents, Vietnam, Morocco, and Bolivia and didnāt seem to promise many days off. Eventually, I would commit anyways knowing the experience was too wonderful to pass up, but I remained nervous about a heavily structured program that would have me constantly traveling with the same 25 other individuals.
Let me reiterate how much I love my independence. Iām an outgoing individual and love socializing when the moment is right, but truly, I am an introvert at heart and depend on my alone time/free time to rejuvenate. Needless to say I was entirely overwhelmed the first two weeks I spent in our launch city, San Francisco. We hadnāt even started traveling yet and already I was spending every waking minute with the same 25 people. Apart from the class time, we were attending community development sessions, organizing random dinners of groups of four to get to know each other better, and living in bunk beds with 4-5 people per room. We literally couldnāt get away from each other. On top of the time spent together, we were forced to actually be vulnerable with each other, unpacking privilege, discussing our positionalities, talking climate change; small talk was immediately dropped and every conversation seemed heavy.
Things changed though and quickly. Iām not sure when exactly it was that I started to feel so wholly appreciative towards each person on my program. I started to see my role unfold in this community, which no longer felt like an obligation but instead a blessing to be a part of. Those first two weeks in San Fran were tough socially of course; an entirely new setting different from the independence and feasibility of meeting up with new faces each day on Wakeās campus took some getting used to. Once I figured out how lucky I was to have this group of people in my life, I would be forever changed. Somewhere during the heavy talks and vulnerability, I grew a deep love for each individual, and I felt entirely supported by each person as well. The experience didnāt necessarily get easier but instead became increasingly more transformative and beautiful with each class session, guest lecturer, site visit, and community session.Ā