DAVID BECKHAM BODYGUARD EVELIO MORALES 6YR SECRET ROMANCE
The following story, is part of six plus years of my life that I shared with
#David Beckham's Bodyguard, Evelio Morales. It's dedicated for Evelio, to read this November 5th, and bring back memories...WHY did I choose November 5th the special day to post this story??...Well, we made November 5th our Anniversary Date...I suggest, he grabs the Tequila bottle with the pear inside, that i gave him, some Champagne too, and invites his Business Partner, to a sexy movie night, just as we had several times throughout the years in our six year relationship...and Babe, don't forget to kiss your Business Partner's back just as I you loved kissing mine every time we finished making love...But then again, you can enjoy sharing it on November 9th as well, would also, be the perfect day to share this story with your Business Partner! Happy Anniversary!
Was I delusional to think Evy Loved me?? Was HE delusional to think I loved him as he knew I did?? Well, we did give each other six years of our lives intimately and emotionally.....I am sure that if it wasn't for me having my Open House and Googling him, we would still be having romantic nights....I guess, the answer is THAT: IT'S Popcorn Time!
I met Evelio in 2008 around July or so when I used to live in Agoura Hills....It was a Friday. I remember. My friend had invited me to CLEAR a Bar Lounge that used to be in Studio City, I had never been to before. I remember i was wearing a Black Satin Mini dress with Japanese print, sexy yet classy! My straight long dark brown hair and soft make up was enough to make me feel sexy! It was the first time I had worn that dress and my the light pink pumps complimented it pretty cool, I thought! About 30 minutes after my friend Victoria and I got there, I remember walking close to the bar area, as I'm walking in there, suddenly I see this gorgeous tall guy walking in that looked at me straight in the eyes and we both smiled! I remembered we didn't stop looking at each other...I felt this instant happy feeling, I guess, because it had been years anyone had impressed me at first sight, as he did! It was awesome...time stopped.., our eyes continued smiling at each other as he started walking towards me,,,Our eyes and smile did most of the talking as he puts his hands softly on my waist and we started dancing, slow dancing....holding each other as if we had known each other for ever. The place was pretty crowded...it was pretty cool how No one else was dancing,..but us! We didn't care what type of music was playing, we just wanted to enjoy the moment as we held each other slow dancing to the music! He didn't want to let go of me, so he asked his friend, a short thin guy, he went there with, I can't remember his name, to get me a drink. Asked what I wanted, "Chocolate Martini" I said....sends his friend to brings us the Chocolate Martini, as we continued in each other's arms, dancing, and we shared the Chocolate Martini...and then, I feel his arms around my waist gently holding me even closer to him with this tenderness that was felt very loving, and softly kisses me in my lips...I lost myself in his arms and kiss that moment,,, and softly kissed him back. Then he whispers in my ear "it feels like I'm floating" and gently holds me even more closer to him ...softly kisses me again....It was amazing! I felt IN LOVE! I felt as I, was floating myself... I smiled and just enjoyed every minute as we continued to dance and dance in each other's arms for several more songs. It was the first time I had heard the name #David Beckham.
I didn't know who this David Beckham was....When I heard that unfamiliar name, all I said was "cool"...I didn't care so much about inquiring more either, since I am and have never been fan or do I easily get impressed by Hollywood Celebrity Gods and Goddesses! I just smiled and continued to enjoy the night! But later, throughout the relationship, David Beckham would become more a familiar name...
It was somewhat past 1:00am as CLEAR was getting ready to end the night. Before Evelio left, he asked me for my phone number...but since I I REALLY liked him, and we connected in such away, I had butterflies all over... REALLY It felt as "love at first sight".....I Felt, like he said "feels like I'm floating"....AND for sure "I WAS FLOATING" .... but because of all the butterflies flying all over,...I smiled, looked at him and said to him "ill take your number instead" I felt, that by getting his number instead, i would buy some time to allow the butterflies fly away... I guess, the fact that I had been thru a divorce three years prior, scared me for feeling "the floating" sensation, with this Stranger that I had just met, that had made me feel and experience such amazing energy! It was crazy, that all it took, just one look, just one soft kiss to know the 'Floating feeling' was mutual.. So, he gave me his cell number and i found it cute he gave me two of his email addresses, bigric@ and 3v@, too...and said he lived close by CLEAR, that if I wanted to stop by after, he would be awake waiting for me...I said I would call him to get directions to stop by....right before he walks out the exit door, he waves at me and signals with his hands "call me" I smiled back and nodded my head.. with "yes"... but I did not call him that night nor did I stop by either.
I left Clear about five minutes after, I left smiling, for I had just experienced something that rarely happens....The Connection of two Souls....But I needed to let time go by a bit since I really liked him, to not rush into anything! I easily get scared when something of this magnitude hits my heart...About a month goes by and it was still fresh in my thoughts, his words "It feels like I'm floating" and THAT floating sensation, I still felt it...but as the biggest chicken that exists, every time I was about to call him, I would get nervous and hang up...THAT amazing moment we both felt, i couldn't get it off my thoughts, and couldn't believe HOW this stranger, I had just met once, continued to make my eyes and heart smile....so one day, after my many nervous failure attempts...I finally made the call, and this time I didn't hang up! It rang and rang and rang, so I left him a message on his voicemail thanking him for an amazing night and for the Chocolate Martini drinks....I also, emailed him later in the night, letting him know I had tried calling him... The next day, I see his reply and after that, we started texting for a few days back and forth which lead to meeting for Dinner at Gladstones in Universal City Walk. He shared about his trips all over the world as we enjoyed a nice dinner. On our way to our cars, he invited me over his place on Colfax in North Hollywood, I followed him to his place. He showed me all of the VIP medals/passes he has collected over the years for the many events his job requires him to attend. Gave me a personal Jujitsu show. We were in his room mostly, we listened to music and one of the songs he played for me was "I'm Yours" with Jason Mraz....It was the first time I had ever heard that song...Which over the years, we made it Our Song! We talked about poetry and he recited a few poems he wrote and I was too shy to recite any of mine...It was great, I felt, we connected even more, since we both write poetry...It was getting late, and he suddenly grabs me says "get over here" and start kissing me...we kissed endlessly, nothing more then kissing....It was cool, because I felt we were taking it slow...so kissing nonstop and holding each other was a beautiful moment because, we both enjoyed just doing that and I wasn't ready for more...I liked that he didn't try anything more, and allowed me to feel comfortable...to me, it is what people do when there is respect and are falling in love...no need for sex or anything more, Kisses were enough! He was what I wanted from a man...in every way....After, I leave, he texts me, he had a great time and sends me a good night..
After that night, we continued being in contact, a few phone calls here and there but mainly texting since his job doesn't allow him to be on the phone while he is with clients, and according to him, he was with clients almost day and night for weeks, barely time to breath! So we adopted texting throughout the relationship as our main source of communication....and emailing, while he was out of the Country, was our thing!!, ,..Weeks later, we meet at the #Boneventure Hotel and had a great time at the RoofTop of The Bonaventure...It was the first time in words he said 'He Liked me'...We had an amazing night,! Everything looked great,....He is awesome, I thought, Such a nice, well mannered, perfect guy that made me smile every time I saw him.... We left the Bonaventure and ended the night a little bit past midnight..., after he came back from several of his trips, we went to see Ghostown, Starring,# Ricky Gervais and #Tea Leoni, A few weeks later, he invites me over his place again, on Colfax, in North Hollywood... met me outside and we went to have Yogurt at PinkBerry's in Studio City, close to his place. After finishing, we went back to his place. Spark were all over...we kissed endlessly, just as we did before, a little touch here and there but nothing more...I knew I was falling in love with him, by this time, we had been in contact for close to 5 months. I was starting to really fall for him, so i started getting nervous, I decided to take some time to think if I was ready to get into a serious relationship, so we stopped communicating..., I thought that if I allowed myself time to think before getting into a serious relationship, since i felt it was heading that direction, giving myself some time to think, was the right thing to do since I had already been through a divorce 3 years ago, and I needed to know before we got intimate that this would grow to more....So about 7 months or so later, i reach out to him...I needed to see him and find out if we still had the same spark, the same floating sensation as we did before, Since I couldn't stop thinking about the amazing moments we had, especially the first day we met, dancing, "floating" as he said... So the beginning of November, I emailed him.. I thought to myself, if he is still single and he replies to me, I am ALL IN, and I promised myself not to be afraid and stop my childish behavior or running away every time i feel i'm getting too close with my heart and promised myself that if he was still single, to show him all my love and allow myself to fall in love with him even more and not hold back........So with butterflies and all, I pressed SEND, wondering if I would hear back from him...a couple of days later, he called me, but there was some misunderstanding, he even got upset thinking I was NOT reaching out to him but someone else...I reassured him indeed it was him I was trying to reach. To me, it was a great sign to know he thought it was Not him I was trying to reach because it reassured me he still liked me....So after clarifying the misunderstanding, the next day, November 5th, we meet for dinner at Amazing Siam, a Thai Restaurant close by his new place in Chatsworth he had just bought a few months before we connected again! It was awesome to see him again, I remember he made a comment about the silk scarf I was wearing, that Girls from Italy wear scarfs...He shared he had been in Italy for 3 months there working with David Beckham. I asked while he was in Italy did he date anyone....he said that a girl from the Hotel they were staying at liked him, but that he doesn't believe in far away relationships....We had a great dinner, and conversation and invites me over his new home on James Alen Ct, we finished dinner around 9pm, and I followed him to his home... It was like we had never stopped seeing each other, he showed me his new home and we went upstairs to his bedroom and everything was like magic, we kissed and kissed endlessly, we caught up with lost time, I didn't want to hold back, and it was the very first time I allowed him to kiss my breasts, he wanted to make love to me, but I wasn't ready yet to take it there, he understood....we just kissed and made up for lost time for several hours.. I left that night rather late..We would see each other here and there, but constantly text and email, for most of our six year relationship I ended up moving to Palm Springs area and he lived in Chatsworth, its about a 2.5 hour driving difference..
The time we went for Dinner at Shabu Shabu in Hollywood, he shared with me about the Brazilian ex girlfriend that he thought she was "the one"....that she cheated on him with one of his friends...Even though he tried to hide it, I could hear it in his voice this Girl really hurt him..If he is till bringing her up at 8 years or so...it was obvious, he had being hurt deep....After, dinner we go back to his place and we went to buy some wine...I remember, he did not want to use the discount vons card, he said, you can get tracked.....I thought because of his job, that being David Beckham's Bodguard, he needed to take extra precautions..so I didn't think much of it...We saw each other a few more times before his a trip to South Africa,...He would see me when he came back, He called me from South Africa and tells me he is coming back in a few days...
Our relationship pretty much was like that, He would travel with clients, we would see each other for sure before he left out of the country and when he came back,...I never asked about his celebrity clients, I was very respectful to not invade that space...Anything or everything I know about his celebrity clients was because he himself shared...as for me...All I cared was how he made me feel when I was with him and the amazing moments we enjoyed together. I was IN LOVE! To me his clients could take a hike anytime LOL..I remember one time one of the nights I spent the night over, in the morning when we woke we made love again, and again....once he starts getting ready to go to work, it was the first time I had ever asked with WHICH clients would he be working with that day??? He replied "The Becks", "that's how they call them" he said....I replied in a joking manner with "Screw the Becks" he laughed went downstairs and ten min when he came back to the room, we made love again...It was so sexy... it was the first time he made love to me we made love to me, dressed with all his gear full armor..
When we saw each other after his South Africa trip,towards the beginning of our relationship, we were having dinner at his place in James Alen, Ct, I remember very clearly he was talking about David Beckham... I remember I asked, for the very first time, "besides being David Beckham's Bodyguard, are you close friends with him too?"...with a smile he says"yes, we are...very close!" He continues proudly with "David Beckham always chooses me over other Bodyguards, he trusts me on everything..... and at work, the other Bodyguards don't like it that David Beckham always chooses me" I smiled and kissed him and said "that's cool that he trusts you, that you are so close to him"....I also, didn't understand WHY he had the need to show off that since the flight coming back from South Africa got delayed till later in the morning, that David Beckham and him decided not to wait at the airport but went back to continue partying with, at one of the girls house they had been partying with earlier...EITHER he was trying to show me how close friends David Beckham and him are, Or he was trying to get me jealous....Of course it got to me.. but didn't make him know I got hurt...I laughed instead and acted as it it didn't bother me... I thought in my mind I am not going to let that bother me...Plus we had just starting seeing each other, like 4 months or so, It was too early in the relationship for me to get all hyped up about...I thought.......So I thought not making a big deal of it, but laugh with a joke and let it go there......Another time, years later. he suddenly out of the blue says "Did I ever share with you the time I went to a brother house by mistake?" I replied, "recently???" he replies with "No a few years back before I met you" LOL of course NOW i know and understand he always gave me hints of what he was actually doing or capable of doing when it came to other women.....back then, stupid me lol, thought he was just trying to see my reaction, see if i would get jealous,,I guess I was in denial of what he was actually doing...He then follows by sharing another story, THAT he didn't know it was a brothel house, that he went to a masseuse place thinking it was a masseuse place but in ended being a brother house in Van Nuys, that they showed him the showers, that and all of the girls there, were wearing tiny mini dresses with high heels....and all I said "oh and you didn't enjoy it, I take it" he laughed and he continued showing off that the next day he went back but this time one of his 'Very Close Friend's' went with him to.. but that the Brothel House was no longer there..it was gone! WELL, i mean, he went there before he met me right?? LOl of course he did! Well, enough about David Beckham lol, South Africa parties and Brothel Houses LOL....oh by the way, I learned 'LOL' when I first started dating Evelio...., It was actually the reason why our first fight was about. Funny, I THOUGHT he was making fun of me when he texted with "Tequila? When, Where LOL". The texting world was new to me, so the texting abbreviation lingo was unfamiliar to me... I never liked texting, never texted anyone before, but because of his busy schedule with the Beckham's and other high Celebrity profile clients, like:
#Miley Cyrus , #Penelope Cruz - #Victoria Beckham -, #Jennifer Lopez
Well, we continued our romance.....And every time we saw each other, we always had the most incredible, most delicious sexy moments any girl would want to experience with their Guy...It wasn't until his trip back from New Zealand that we took our relationship into a more intimate level. He invited me over for dinner. He said he had a surprise for me..he got me something...I thought the surprise he had for me was homemade tamales he had brought back from his mom's kitchen....But besides the delicious tamales, he also introduced me his famous 'Coquitos' drink, and another drink he loves making too, I can't remember the name he said, but I called it the "V-delicious Drink"....For sure that night was one of our most romantic moments and the beginning of taking our relationship to the next level... While he was preparing dinner, he stops and goes upstairs, brings back a gift, it was a beautiful Jade necklace, he called "Koru" said to me "this is for you" I opened it... He said, "I got it for you in New Zealand" he continues saying "it has a meaning"
I asked "what is the meaning" he said "I can't remember, but you yourself, can't buy it, It has to be given to you as a gift" I smiled and softly kissed him..we kissed and he continued serving dinner. Dinner was incredible...the night just kept getting better....,we went upstairs..It was the first time we made love.... and we made love endlessly. It was the beginning of amazing intimate nights to follow for years to come....We didn't sleep until 5am or so...it was amazingly awesome!! We slept a few hours and woke up and continued making love and love covered the air! There was no doubt that " LOVE covered our space"..... no doubt that the Koru's the meaningful gift, and experiencing for the first the intimate touch of each other, was indeed unforgettable one of the happiest moments we shared like he said "I feel like I'm floating"....The picture above, is what i was wearing that day....
We continued our romance every time better and better....,our sexy dinner dates never boring, always so much passion and sparks always flying nonstop the minute we saw each other... Every time we saw each other, it was like it was the first time. Our Bedroom department moments were always so intense, so passionate. No complaints, never in that department....Every time we made love, as if it was the very first time when he gave me the Koru....."My sexy man"; "My delicious man" or "My sexy delicious man" it was how I would address him constantly. He made me happy....just by thinking about him, he made me smile, and I often reminded him of it! I really believed having what we had, rarely comes.. I remember he said to me at the very beginning of our sexy nights...."I am very passionate, and I love making you happy" well, I loved how he made me happy! It was magical since the day we first met at CLEAR.....We connected in every way, physically, emotionally, and we stimulated our mind at the same level, Our moments, were so awesome, that if anyone were to experience what we had..they would understand WHY we "floated in the air" Our fights only took place when we did not see each other, and the reason WHY we fought was for him working so much. but once we saw each other, everything was forgotten! We never argued when we saw each other..We were like teenagers in love...Perhaps, it may seem, I could be exaggerating how our moments were so passionately out of this world,, but that is exactly how they were....I am not about to exaggerate anything or fabricate anything because If I altered any of the facts of our six year romance, it would alter the entire romance...if I were to not say the truth of how much we loved being in our arms the minute we saw each other...it would alter the reality of how we felt when we were together...so as silly as it may seem, what I am sharing, THAT WAS THE TRUTH AND REALITY OF OUR RELATIONSHIP to the dot! Our relationship was flawless....I thought! Even Our eyes made love to each other the minute we saw each other,,,we couldn't get enough! Watching a movie, "Are You Kidding me" just like he shared those were Victoria Beckham's favorite words when it came to the Paparazzi, that she always says "Are You Kidding me?" Well, "ARE YOU KIDDING ME?" lol........We NEVER finished watching a movie when at home or when ever me met at the Palm Pacific Hotel & Resort In City Of Industry....we never knew how it ended, because the movie was not as interesting or fascinating as making love...., who cared about the movie Lol.....One thing I know for sure, intimate moments like what we shared, where time stops and everything is 'Le Vie en Rose' its exactly THAT "Le vie en Rose" "we were floating" always!!! And anyone who experiences that in a lifetime...can say they've experienced the ultimate romance ever and would without a doubt carry that in their heart! But besides our incredible moments, the only thing that made us get upset, like I said before, was that his work schedule that kept him away from me for weeks, PLUS living far from each other didn't help either.....that was the downside! Clients, clients, clients!! Oh, I almost forgot, Channing Tatum was another reason for our fights.... I used to get him back by saying for working so much, that I was going to see if Channing Tatum would take me out for dinner....Of course, I've never met Channing Tatum, but I always told him I thought #Channing Tatum was so sexy! He couldn't handle it.. Lol, we probably had dozens of fights when #Channing Tatum #Channing Tatum
came in as my saving subject....mentioning Channing Tatum would get him furious....every time! Actually, our last fight was because of the same reason...after we made up, he tells me "I Don't do an Eye for and Eye, I do two for one" But we made up and life was wonderful again! One time, I got so upset at him for being such a workaholic that I even told him to Give my leather jacket to Victoria Beckham, that I had left at his place, since he was overworking himself for the Beckhams...But once we saw each other....everything was forgotten...Victoria Beckham can keep my jacket. lol
YES, all the waiting and his work schedule coming between us, was all wiped away, when we saw each other....Moments in paradise, moments every girl would want to experience..See, He would never allow me to take my clothes off, when we were starting our sexy nights...HE made sure he took off every single piece by himself, IT WAS HIS THING! Always in charge of that....Of course, I enjoyed it and never complained. He made sure to please me in every way...No complaints either in how he took care of giving me pleasure.....He would start kissing my entire body first to making love.....Our sexy nights would end up with him kissing my back, never he missed that! He loved me caressing his back with my fingertips...Every time we made love, he played the song by Sade "smooth operator".... that was the song he played for us when we made love the first time and made it our love making song...AND the song "I am yours" with #Jason Mraz was OUR song for ever!!! We ere supposed to see go see Jason Mraz in concert once, but his job came in the way....Bummer!!!!
Our moments at home were: dinners, movies, tequila tasting, wine tasting, making together strawberries and blueberries dipped in chocolate, and getting drunk with each other....Some of the movies we saw were, one of OUR favorites, Aliens and Cowboys with Daniel Craig, which we saw that at the Palm Pacific Resort....actually, we saw the beginning only...other movies, we saw 300 with #Gerard Butler, #Sandra Bullock, Forest Gump,another movie with A girl names, I think Morissette and Nicholas cage, Collateral with Tom Cruise, and 007 Casino Royale.... we mainly stayed home....he didn't like going out too much, he would say that since he is always with clients, he prefers being inside... I didn't mind at all our dinner dates mainly took place inside.. at his place, or at the Palm Pacific Resort, in Diamond Bar...some of the restaurants included, The Maccorni Grill....The Peruvian Restaurant....Ihop for breakfast....Shabu Shabu, but indoor dinner dates, was our thing....
He loved his dog Sasha and talked how lovable she was, and I would brag about Djin my little white with black poke dots Chihuahua....
One night, a few years back, like 3 years into the relationship, when he went to surprise me a at the Padris, the Martini Lounge in Agoura Hills, he stopped by with the same friend, the thin, short guy, he introduced me to back when I first met him at CLEAR in Studio City, I had not seen him for a few weeks, and It was so was awesome he surprise me...I remember when he leaned over to kiss me in front of everyone, his kiss was full of love....I felt it.. and kissed me again.. I felt his love.....After we went to his place, when we were making love that night, it was the first time i had I told him " I love you"with words...he got touched and as we were making love, He asked me if I meant what I said, and I re plied, "If I didn't mean it, I wouldn't say it" we continue making and it was the first time I heard "Babe" and continued making love, kissing me more softly more delicately..So our night ended until the wee hours of the morning...there was an immense connection, not just because we were making love, but connection of our hearts, of our mind, of our souls.....It was such a heartfelt moment...
Every time, we saw each other, texts with kisses an love yous would follow for days....then he would disappear into his work, so we wouldn't see each other for weeks, sometimes even for a couple of months depending how busy was his schedule, but when he had to fly overseas, then for sure we would see each other the night before he left and for sure when he came back.....My sexy man, always so busy working....well this went on for years,,, Six years plus, and nothing would change...I always thought, that what he shared with me at Shabu Shabu at the Highland's in Hollywood, about the Brazilian girl he said he almost married who he thought SHE was "the one", when he lived in Brazil, broke his heart for cheating on him, that it was the reason why he was so guarded so....I felt she made him scared of getting into a more committed relationship...I thought it was the reason why he told me once that "women don't know it until it gets ugly, you don't see it but I can do more harm than good" well, foolish me thought, he just needed more love reason why he was so guarded, since he would say that every time we fought and made up, I always wanted to put the commitment in place. that as if he wasn't allowed to communicate a bit first before a commitment would take place... I always felt that those were just words because he had been hurt so much in the past from that Brazilian girl..He also shared that before he met me, the Brazilian ex-girlfriend came to California and he met with her and drove her around for a couple of weeks...that she cried because he was not around when she needed him most...
So I tried to be understanding because I thought he had been too hurt. I thought my patience and understanding was finally paying off since, we were getting closer the last two years of our relationship, especially the last year, he was more loving to me, and i really felt we were now heading to higher steps....I guess, The Paris Perfume idea, we talked about when we spend together on his birthday at the Palm Pacific Resort, is no longer in the plan.#Pacific Palms Resort (City of Industry, CA) -
Being together on his birthday, was a sure indication our relationship was at its highest....We had an amazing sexy celebration with Strawberries and Champagne that ended right before the Sunset! Love, for sure was the key ingredient that covered our space! Just like the previous year, before his trip to Italy, we shared a great night at the Palm Pacific Resort....Having a great romantic champagne with strawberries sexy night and breakfast desert again when we woke up in the morning followed by breakfast in bed..we were in heaven...Years later after he had given me the Koru necklace, he decides to give me the meaning of the Koru he had given to me when we first made love...Because he shared the meaning, I really thought we were getting even closer and Evelio was ready to make the commitment in taking our relationship to a higher level...
Sent: Sun, Nov 4, 2012 4:48 pm
I was wrong. that meaning was the circle with a small hole in it. The one you have is this:
The spiral is a Koru, represents the fern frond as it opens bringing new life and purity to the world. It also represents peace, tranquility and spirituality along with a strong sense of re growth or new beginnings.
The Koru is also often associated with nurturing so when interlocked with others is frequently used to represent the strength and purity of a loving relationship.
We continued seeing each other...Several times throughout the relationship i questioned his long working days and things that I found odd, but he would always re-assured me his work was too in the way and his client expected him to be available all hours......many times I would try to give him his space by saying we should give each other a break since he was working so much, but he would stop me and wouldn't want us to take any breaks....Even the last few weeks before November 9th, he wanted to see me and we would still text for hours until 3 am or so...and send each other kisses, and love yous, pictures AND again, I suggested we take a break until his work schedule got better and he took care of other personal things he was going through, then, but he insisted that I wait just a bit more until he took care of those issues....Of course, as a woman in love, I agreed, But after six years of this amazing "I feel like I am floating" relationship, and wondering about some of his actions, and his hectic work schedules, the truth would get revealed! I was doing an Open House, I got bored..so I went to the computer and decided to google him... it was the first time I googled him...I had no need to google him in the past, since I trusted him, plus I had never been into the social media world,,so Googling him had not triggered my curiosity in the past... I even thought it would damage our trust...but this time I decided to google him...I thought, since he was upset at me for my Channing Tatum comments I had made on our last fight, I thought maybe Ill find out something to make him laugh....the funny thing is that nothing about him showed....but a woman's name kept popping up...Sheri Kamakani Director at #AEG Entertainment I didn't pay much attention, the first time...but the long hours of the open house got me thinking WHY was this person's name popping up..., So I decided to google again hoping I would find him this second time... but again the same name kept popping up Sheri Kamakani...so I thought WHY..... so I googled her....Sheri Kamakani, Senior Director of #AEGSports at Anschutz Entertainment Group, Inc.:I thought that was weird, her name popped up AGAIN...So I searched her on facebook to see if his name would appear as one of her friends.... there were several Evelio Morales' she was friends with, but no one showed his pictures;.. so I assumed it was the wrong Evelio....But something didn't feel right...so I decided to search if he had sold his property in Chatsworth, since I am a Real Estate broker, I had all the tools... I dont know why i misread the Lease Listing as a Sold listing... but THAT mistake lead me to the truth....i ordered a property profile on his Chatsworth property to find out when he sold it...and at the same time I checked if he had bought any other property.....Bingo! He had bought another property In Long Beach, and when I received the title of it...it showed THAT name of that woman that kept popping up when I googled him, Sheri Kamakani as one of the owners on title with him on the property... I was hoping she was the sister, or the business partner, or cousin, since he shared with me he would help family members, I remember the story he shared about his cousin that the family thinks looks alot alike like him, the cousin he helped with the Spinning Barber Chair...Anyway the title of the property showed Evelio Morales, a single man and Sheri Kamakani a single woman,,,,so I wondered, WHO could that woman be?? WHO, my head kept spinning...I didn't know what to think since, her Facebook, showed SHERI KAMAKANI...nowhere did I see Morales, to connect her with Evelio...so. WHO was this person?? My wondering thoughts continued for days trying to figure out WHO this woman was??? My thoughts were all over,,,the Long Beach property showed it was purchased, was a few weeks after Evelio and I spend the night at his Chatsworth home, after his motorcycle fall....so AGAIN, who was this #Sheri Kamakani | Anschutz Entertainment Group Inc ...SENIOR DIRECTOR AT ANSCHUTZ ENTERTAINMENT GROUP…???
I didn't call him or email him right away when i found out about the Long Beach Property,, I needed to calm down and not make a stupid assumption that could damage our relationship or come across as the irrational jealous type, accusing him of something that could not be true ....All I wanted was for us to make up and forget we were upset because of my stupid Channing Tatum remarks...I wanted to see him see what he had to say....So I emailed him, told him I needed to see him... I did not mention Sheri Kamakani's name, Or that I found out he had bought the Long Beach Property. Since he didn't reply right away, I then called him left him a message and emailed him again...But this time, both email and phone call message, I mentioned I found out the Long Beach property...For All I could imagine, Sheri Kamakani was probably his sister that lived in Miami, or his Business Partner, he had mentioned he had..... Once I called him and left him a message and emailed him mentioning I found out about his new property in Long Beach, I finally get a reply, nnd he said he would come over to see me but that he was very busy working, that as soon as he had some time, he would...few days went by, almost now 7 days or so and he kept saying for me to wait... a few weeks went by and finally I told him that if he was too busy or still upset and he wanted to end it for sure, then that I would stop by his new place and return back him over the Koru necklace he gave me,that had so much meaning for us and we would end it! As I already mentioned before, Many times, i tried to end it, since I didn't understand many things or his ways....Even right before November 9, 2013 before he ate wedding cake, he wanted to see me and we were sending kisses and love yous for hours and hours until 3am or so...I remember He said he would sing to his grandparents when he was little, and then that night he sends me several pictures, and one was his picture when he was a baby with the guitar sending me a melody.....Around October 28, or so,,,,,I had told him that it seemed he had too many things going on, that perhaps we should give each other some time so he could think, and that once he was ready next year we would continue...but he didn''t want to let me go, he said he had to take care of some personal things and that as soon as he did, things would be back to normal with us...so I believed...Its been a year or so since I found out the truth...
All these 6 years+ he never wanted me to leave him... but funny that as soon as I told him I found out about his property in Long Beach, he replied.....so after weeks of emails back and forth, we decided to meet at the Ritz, in Rancho Mirage on Sunday August 26,.....when we met at the Ritz for dinner, I didn't ask who was that other person showing on title with him..I wanted him to tell me the truth himself, because by him now knowing I knew about his Long Beach Property, and, that more likely I knew about another woman showing on title with him, i guess I was hoping he would say, who this person was...But he didn't and I didn't ask,... But i had prepared myself mentally to not ask who this Sheri Kamakani person was, if he didn't bring up her name, then I would go directly to her and ask her how was she connected with him...We had a great dinner a great time at the Ritz like nothing bad or bad about to happen, we enjoyed each other's company as we did in the past...no arguments, we laughed like nothing was wrong...Yes, he loved my pink dress alot! He didn't end it, I didn't end it...but he makes a comment saying that I told him to "fuck Off" many times...in other words it was my fault we were where we were at....At that time, somehow I felt, it could have been my fault for our last fight, but I didn't want to say anything more until I found out WHO was this Sheri Kamakani that showed up on title...There were things we discussed there at the Ritz, things he shared, like that he was not happy in the place he was currently in his life...I wondered why he said that but I just listened...that plus other things we talked about and he shared.....
Then we leave and outside he tells me that he wishes me the best, and his prayers for me would always be with him....We left, I didn't give him back the Koru Necklace, but I told him that I would stop by one of this days to drop it off his home...he looked at me didn't even a blink and the date ended.....he drove back on his motorcycle and that was that...So a few days later, I sent a message through Facebook to Sheri Kamakani | Anschutz Entertainment Group Inc ...
SENIOR DIRECTOR AT ANSCHUTZ ENTERTAINMENT GROUP...Sheri Kamakani, Director of AEG entertainment that appeared on title with him on that new property....
"i have been going out with Evelio for over 5 years, Who are you? Are you his business partner, are you his sister...I didnt hear back, so a few days later, Saturday September 4 or so, I sent her an email...I called Aeg Entertainment in Los Angeles, and it was easier than I thought to obtain her email address.. I asked the person who answered, and without hesitation, it was provided..so it worked out great for me..I emailed Sheri Kamakani the same message as the one I had sent via Facebook, and in added a few pictures of Evelio including the baby picture playing a melody for me, he had sent me....and asked the same questions....it didn't take more than 20 minutes when I my phone rang.. it was Evelio calling to tell me that she was his wife, that not to send her more messages, that she knew he came to see me in Palm Springs, and that not to contact him anymore for any type of business with him. LOL. BUSINESS?? how funny NOW I was a business acquaintance lol...So i decided NOT to call back, but to write an email to him letting him know I wanted all my stuff back, .
with list of every gift I gave him....which of course I cc: Sheri Kamakani as well...It was interesting how after I had reached out to her via email, days later, her Facebook name had been changed to Sheri Kamakani Morales,
It was the most shocking news, never in a million years would I thought he was married or had gotten married...NO he was the most honest, nice, sincere man, I had ever met....my world turned upside down...it was the most unbelievable reality I was facing! After getting his phone call, I sent him and cc her a message,
"WOW!!!! Really, now you actually made a phone call to tell me you have a wife. WhY weren't you wearing a ring this past Sunday when we had dinner at the Ritz, here in Palm Springs... WHY didn't you tell me you had a wife? WHY, did you play with me for so long. Well, YOU are a bigger asshole than I thought"..Now the puzzle was being put together in my head, words bouncing all over, remembering things he had said, or done.. etc...as ,, many times throughout our relationship, he would mention, my Business Partner, well puttin the puzzle together, Sheri Kamakani was who he called his business partner!! Oh yes and his "business partner, is into photography"...how interesting, so AM I..
Evelio Morales is a bodyguard employed with #Gavin de Becker & Associates...how I found out about his employment when he wanted me to to his refinance of his Chatsworth Home a few years back. Besides being a Real Estate Broker I am also a Mortgage Broker, that's when he provided me with paystubs, w2s the paperwork needed to do a refinance. I remember once when he brought up his Business Partner, I had spend the night over after coming back from his trip in Italy....He says " After the trip to Italy with Penelope Cruz, I was asked to go to England, but my Business Partner has family, so I ended up not going" My Business Partner, My Business Partner, My Business Partner, kept bouncing inside of my head so much. The funny thing, after he got caught, (I)became the Business Connection LOL...
You can only imagine, how upset I was... but as upset I was, I did not give him the luxury to say I went to his home and caused a scene....NO not my style...Or gave him the luxury to say I called him nonstop, No none of that, no even once....But WHAT I DID do instead, I made copies of many emails and text and mailed them to his home address in Long Beach, the address I had seen with the other owner, Sheri Kamakani, showing on title; But not sure who received them or read them.... WhAT i did do, send and email with copies of some of our emails and texts to directly SHeri Kamakani an email address I was provided when I called AEG Entertainment, and the receptionist was very cooperative in providing it...But then, I am no sure if she ever read them....WHAT I did do, send Gavin De Becker of, Gavin de Becker & Associates through Facebook,sent a message asking him if he would be interested in collaborating in writing a book about the importance of being up-to-date with asocial media, to educate those who do not posses the knowledge of how powerful knowing Social Media can be, to help in providing the tools needed in order that no one gets fooled, because honesty, and integrity falls short in this society! I even thought of calling the book: "The Gift Of Fear In Social Media" I learned Gavin Debecker has published a very successful The Gift of Fear: Gavin de Becker: By the way, If Mr. DeBecker has a chance to read this story, I want to let him know the offer is still open Mr. Gavin Debecker,....
I never thought I would experience such a painful and humiliating experience, but for sure, Ignorance in this field, like how I admit, ignorantly CHOSE for years not to be part of, IT's like a lost bullet waiting to hit the most vulnerable target...that when choosing not to be part of the world we live in, as I stupidly did, it can be more damaging then we can ever imagine AND by choosing not to get involved in Social Media, we are helping those hungry deceitful ones, take advantage of us...Lack of knowledge is one the most damaging self destructing weapon that can destroy even the strongest at heart!! ..and just because some of us posses the ability to have high standards, honesty and integrity, doesn't mean others do.. Who would imagine in the era we live, that a Real Estate Broker, a Mortgage Mortgage Broker and Notary, would choose to stay away from Social Media...Well, Ladies and Gentlemen, I DID, I posses all of those licenses, and I did not want to get involved in Social media,because i didn't want to get lost in a cold world, I thought, I wanted to do One on One contacts and avoid getting pulled in a world I thought was not for me... What a Big Mistake, because if I had been involved in Social Media, it would have helped me to get my eyes out of the fog, and clear my vision....I lost 6 years of my life in a relationship that fooled me in so many ways....Lesson One Million and counting Lol....WHAT else did I do?? learn Twitter, Tumblr, Instagram, and Blogger to post this story to put everything back in balance. and to let Evelio Morales know that he confused my intelligence and lack of knowledge, un-wanting participation in the Social Media World, and my complete trust and love for him I had, as if I do not posses a brain at all whatsoever! Lol.... I even thought of suing him for my black lace panties and pink satin panties left behind, as well as for the Coquitos Recipe and Hawaiian Chicken he promised to give to me after we made love one night, and for other personal items...but afraid that some corrupted & unethical attorney would get involved in trying to squeeze $$$ and get credit for something that can be easily handled outside of the court system, so instead of giving that type of Attorney to get involved, I decided to post this blog instead...I am sure not all are corrupted but I said, corrupted unethical attorney, because, I remember once I was dealing with an attorney, it was too funny, attorney Anthony M Solis Attorney gets hired by the defendant and the defendant's attorney gives me advice. Lol I will never forget that unethical attorney, Poor defendant....I ended up Dismissing the case , so that idiot attorney wouldn't take credit or continue milking the poor defendant.. Anyway back to my story....i got sided tracked...
AFTER Evelio, revealed the truth with that phone call, my mind started to spin, now everything made sense, his comments, how much he worked, It was horrible to find out how I had been lied to, but it was the naked truth....as naked as my naked pictures he has that he loves so much....SO all these thoughts boucing inside of my head were like needles pinching my brain but bleeding through my heart! Now I understood many things and WHY he once made a comment when we were having dinner.... he was talking about the Paparazzi and David Beckham, and we were also talking at the same time about God, and I made this comment "I don"t believe hell exists" I continued with" my belief is that GOD is LOVE and everyone who has GOD in them have LOVE"....he replies to my comments and says something that, at THAT time, it just didn't make sense!! He said, "Then, WHY do men cheat on their wives??" It was awkward to hear what he had just said, because the only person we were talking about that I knew was married was, David Beckham, but I didn't ask if he was trying to tell me David Beckham cheats on his wife because I knew it was a very sensitive subject he had just disclosed and I didn't want to start making him feel as if I am being noisy.....as always, whenever he shared anything about any of his clients, I only listened...I had never asked anything about the privacy of his clients, and that day, wasn't going to be the first time... I respected his privacy and I only let him share what he wanted to share.... my response to his comment was " I guess, there is not enough love, I guess, they don't love them, I guess, something is missing or they are there for the wrong reasons." But finding out the after he revelead the truth with his phone call that he was married, i realized throghout the years he had given me hidden messages carrying truth in them. The redicuolous thing is that I thought when he made that comment about WHy men cheat on their wives, THE comment made me happy, because I was just happy to know my Guy was NOT that type to cheat, LOL....I mean, he did tell me he doesn't understand why men who cheat......So with that comment, I thought I was safe, him cheating on me, was something I should not be worried about. ...My sexy man, is a keeper, I thought!...I leaned over and I hugged him and gave him a soft kiss on the lips...
I am sure i missed many thing,, but you can only imagine how much can take place in 6 plus years...but Ladies and Gentleman, the truth is that I wasn't made the Queen of Fools! It wasn't because he crowned me as A Fool for a few weeks, or a few months...Nor because it was for six months....NO, no....It was more like Six Winters + that I wore that Heavy Crown! AND that is not counting the extra change, the 8 months prior to November 5th when we first met!! But, I think once this story is read, I am very confident that He, My sexy Man, the Man of my Dreams, Evelio Morales...Will be crowned a King himself!! And I am very aware, that not wanting to get involved with social media and being too trusting, gave me extremely high qualifications that contributed for him to allow me to wearing such honorable crown, so I admit, it was not just his fault, it was my fault too for believing everything he told me..he was crafty very crafty with his words...I can only imagine his side of the story of our Six year romance was quite different to his Business Partner..I am sure it went something like what our former President Bill Clinton said under oath, about his relationship with Monica Lewinsky... " I did not have a sexual relationship with"
#Bill Clinton 15 Years Ago: 'I Did Not Have Sexual ...
Oh Boy, what President's are teaching men! Its all the former President's fault..
Well, life continues, and perhaps I've been delusional all these years thinking he loved me, but one thing for sure, whether I was delusional or not: WHAT WE HAD, regardless of his lies, our moments were amazingly incredible and regardless what he has shared or how he has shared about our relationship, we both know that we both experienced magic and love and passion at a rare level...I will be posting a few poems that I sent him throughout the years, and as well as the poem he sent me once I found out about his property in Long Beach...its been too much writing this last couple of days, but I will end this by saying that: If in his current relationship, he has as little as 10% of what we had, he would had never searched outside for love and the floating feeling he said he felt, in order to experience what his relationship with his Business Partner lacks nor what he is missing inside of his heart... But Life is hard and the economy is not that great, reason most will marry their bread and butter or get involved with those that have to offer the right connections to get to the top to be able to meet the Stars!
