@nolipelekai replied to your post “who's your problematic fave?”
And how is that problematic when both girlfriends agreed that’s the deal? Are you trying to say that anything other than monogamy is inherently problematic? That’s not very progressive and/or open-minded of you.
It doesn’t make sense with any of the scientific data we’ve ever collected! How are you not jealous when he spends time with Kori without you, worrying that he likes them better? How is the same not true for Kori when Layland spends time with just you? Would you really not have preferred to be the only one dating him, before he went around kissing both of you and not choosing one? Is there really no element of fear that one of you will get to experience certain things with him first and somehow get the foremost spot in his heart instead? And if you’re not worried about that because you’re all three always together and one of you isn’t getting preferential treatment, then why are you not just all three dating instead of two of you having to share and making Layland the monkey in the middle? Science doesn’t support this as a sustainable model! Or indicate any way that it could be as beneficial for you and Kori, who I care about more, as it is for him! It defies logic!
