ASK: Can I also get some headcanons on how Darui would make it up to her (even if it wasn’t his fault) thanks a ton man
Maybe a bouquet of flowers? Maybe a sincere apology? Maybe a free spa day or something??? He’s kind of at a loss, to be honest. He knows he’s already apologized a million times so he has to think of something else. He would most likely get her something that’s her favorite or take her to her favorite restaurant but would hopefully give her some space if need be. Â
He would probably be a bit offended if she refuses his peace offerings and wants to be left alone. He’d be offended but he’d also understand why. Â
Since Darui is someone in a high position in the workforce he’d most likely be a big person on communication and this is the saving grace of the relationship. Once both of them have cooled off and they try to solve the original problem things start to iron themselves out. His goal is to solve the problem and prevent it from resurfacing later on. Does this actually work? Sometimes. But he also seems like the type of person that would put this on the backburner if he was “too busy.”
If it was her fault Darui won’t keep getting in her face and constantly say that it was her fault to begin with. He will try to turn the problem around so it’s both of their problems and not just her problem. This is not entirely a great idea especially if she continues to try to put the blame on him. It just doesn’t work and might lead to another, less heated, argument over time.
One of his big faults in arguments is definitely the makeup period. If he is truly unsure about figuring out a way to solve things he might act like the argument never happened for a while. This is one of the worst things anyone could do after an argument. During this time, she might be passive-aggressive towards him because she’s still mad and that would just encourage him to keep giving her more space, which causes this ignorant bliss period to last even longer. The tensions between them get higher and every little thing the other person does just pisses them off. Not good. 0/10 Would not recommend ever doing this.
A sincere apology would sometimes work but after such a huge argument like this, it’s not gonna happen. He’s going to have to reach far and do the impossible. If he was at fault he would need to explain why he was and at the very least be respectful and understand why she was upset. I don’t mean just say he “get it” really ponder and wonder why she felt that way and why their argument ended up with them screaming at each other and her storming away. He would have to show that he actually thought about her side of the argument.
On the flip side of this, if she keeps insisting that it was his fault and that he was in the wrong Darui expects her to put the same thought into figuring why he’s upset like he is willing to do for her. He will try to explain this and if she’s the type of woman that straight-up refuses to listen to what he has to say that’s going to be a MAJOR problem. As their relationship goes on and he picks up on her ways of making up after an argument he’ll address it. He doesn’t think it’s fair that she would want him to try a damnedest to appease her when he’s truly wrong in an argument and she does not do the same. It just doesn’t make sense to him.
