#dairya

Dear future me,

Basic Fear: Of being unwanted, unworthy of being loved

Basic Desire: To feel loved  

(she was abused and mocked by her 'basic desire'. a lot. and her entire plotline is about finding her own worth and stop pretending to be something she isn't just to please others)

[a small note: Average to unhealthy Twos seek validation of their worth by obeying their superego’s demands to sacrifice themselves for others. They believe they must always put others first and be loving and unselfish if they want to get love. The problem is that “putting others first” makes Twos secretly angry and resentful, feelings they work hard to repress or deny.  ]

Dairya is a type eight,and one fun detail is When moving in their Direction of Disintegration (stress), needy Twos suddenly become aggressive and dominating at Eight However, when moving in their Direction of Integration (growth), lustful, controlling Eights become more open-hearted and caring, like healthy Twos Also,now moving on to Dairya:

Eights are self-confident, strong, and assertive. Protective, resourceful, straight-talking, and decisive, but can also be ego-centric and domineering. Eights feel they must control their environment, especially people, sometimes becoming confrontational and intimidating. Eights typically have problems with their tempers and with allowing themselves to be vulnerable. At their Best: self- mastering, they use their strength to improve others' lives, becoming heroic, magnanimous, and inspiring.

Basic Fear: Of being harmed or controlled by others

Basic Desire: To protect themselves (to be in control of their own life     and destiny)

And,guess what? Dairya's storyline was all about the fact she was being controlled and pressured into a perfect princess mold.  this made her go really wrong