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Spooky season with Keigo is sooo funny because it's the one time of year he is not a homebody. That boy needs to be OUT he needs to be on the STREETS!! He didn't get to celebrate Halloween as a kid, and when he told me that I started trying to go all out for him. Obviously we're too old to go trick or treating, so every year I create an elaborate scavenger hunt across the city for him and our friends. It's soo fun, we all get dressed up and just cause mayhem. We're dressing as Kiki and Tombo from Kiki's Delivery Service this year! Keigo also develops a breeding kink for this time of year, and this time of year only. He's always like "If we had a kid we could take them trick or treating which means I get to finally go trick or treating." and I have to remind him that having a kid means having a kid ALL YEAR, not just during Halloween....

Levi was never a real big Halloween person before, but since I really like it he always goes hard for me. He lets me and helps decorate the house, we buy lil outfits to dress the cats up in. If we decide to go out somewhere he always does whatever couples costume I want, or he supports if I just want to do a solo costume. If we don't go out a lot of the time we will stay in and watch horror movies and then have in depth analysis sessions about it afterwards. Levi LOVES pointing out what everyone did wrong and what they could have done differently to avoid their fate had they really thought about it. Mr. Problem Solver Man over here....

Last but not least, my pouty man. I think it will come as no surprise to anyone, but mine and Touya's anniversary is Halloween. We were 15 and emo when we started dating, ok? There's literally no other day for us to start dating that would make sense. We also become way more obnoxiously obsessed with each other during this time. Basically living in each other's skin. SO!! We will go to Halloween parties - always in a couple's costume - and then spend half the night making out in a dark corner somewhere. We're ANNOYING!!! The day of Halloween itself is mine and Touya's day only. We turn or phones off and skip town. Usually we'll find a concert to go to or something, but if for some reason we can skip town we'll just lock ourselves in our apartment and ignore the rest of the world for a bit. At this point in our lives everyone knows better than to try and contact us on Halloween. I love my spooky man and my spooky man loves me.

Keigo has this bad habit of fidgeting with my clothes, and it makes me so overstimulated. for example, if i'm wearing ripped jeans and he has his hand on my thigh he will start fidgeting with the threads, i'll ask him to stop and he'll apologize and stop.... for like 5 minutes, then his hand will slowly drift back to the rip and do it again. it's not on purpose but it's irritating and i get snippy and pointedly push his hand off me. then i feel awful because he's looking at me like a kicked puppy...

a deeper bad habit is that he's such a people pleaser that he won't tell me in the moment if i've done something that's hurt him or pissed him off. he just let's it all pile up until something small happens, and then he's going off on me for stuff that happened last month that i hardly remember. he's always very apologetic after, and he tries to be better about it... he's just bad at emotions.

Keigo would consider my bad habit to be negative self talk. i get overly critical about myself and start being self deprecating and he's always just there like "hey... stop saying those things to the person i love..."

Touya will use the last of something and not get more or tell me we're out. You don't know how many times i have gone to the bathroom and there be absolutely no toilet paper anywhere... he just think things will magically replenish, i guess...

we all know Touya is a jealous motherfucker, but the bad habit that stems from that is how aloof and straight up cruel he gets when he's trying to mask that he's jealous. the worst part is that we've been together for so long that he knows right where to stick the knife and twist. the absolutely jaw dropping shit that has come out of that boy's mouth... but i think when he's aloof it's worse bc what do you mean you don't want to hug me or talk to me??? bitch...

Touya hates when i borrow his clothes and accidentally ruin them in some capacity. he loves to see me in his sweatshirt, but i'll spill coffee on it or something else where the stain won't come out, and suddenly it's time for me to start wearing my own clothes again.

Reno is the world's worst bed hog!!! the man spreads out and slowly pushes me towards the edge. when i wake him up to ask him to move he immediately goes "i can't i don't have any room." as if he doesn't have the WHOLE BED. i have to shove him hard to get him to move over. dickhead.

something that drives me insane, and has always driven me insane about Reno, is his inability to listen to me and what i'm saying when we're arguing. he just gets SO focused on proving his point and "winning" the argument. at some point in nearly every argument i have to ask "are you even listening to me, or do you have a myriad of excuses ready to go in your back pocket?" more often than not now that usually shakes him out of it and we can work it out better, but there are still times where i will physically have to leave so we can both cool off before coming back and revisiting the topic.

Reno thinks with certain things i can be controlling and in flexible. he'll put something somewhere and then i'll move it because "it doesn't go there / like that, Reno" or he'll be cleaning or something and i'll basically be micromanaging him and stopping him to show him how to do it. if things aren't a certain way sometimes i'll get moody, and Reno hates it.

the funny thing about touya and his birthday is that he simultaneously wants no one to make a fuss about his birthday but he also wants everyone's focus to be on him the whoooole day.

he's also not a super materialistic person, so when i ask him what he wants for his birthday he first will say something very cute ("for you to love me forever and ever 🥺") and after that his answer will be so fucking annoying ("touya what do you want for your birthday and DON'T piss me off by saying a cart-" "a carton of american spirit blues" "prison. you deserve prison, touya") (( i also can't get too mad at him for smoking, i was the one who got him into it in the first place way back when we were delinquent teens))

knowing those two things, here's what's currently on the docket for Touya day: slooow morning. one of touya's favorite things to do is just be in bed snuggling with me and watching trashy reality tv for hours. eventually we'll get up, have coffee and a cigarette on the porch (let us be icky) then shower and get ready for the day. we've got lunch with Enji and Keigo (he's working on his relationship with his dad, but needs keigo there as a crutch.) after that we're gonna go to the record store for a few hours where i'll get him an actual present. then we have dinner with the whole family, minus enji. last social thing we'll do is go bowling with allll the homies. well then end the day the same way we started, in bed. except instead of snuggling i'll be whimpering happy birthday into a pillow as i'm being fucked absolutely senseless by that freak :)

Levi takes my birthday very seriously. It's the biggest day of the year for him, and he has to make sure everything is perfect. He waited on me hand and foot allll day. He cooked me all my favorite foods, baked an amazing vegan cake, he did face masks with me, washed my hair and gave me a scalp massage, let me paint his nails (!!!!), and basically just coddled me and was sweet on me all day. He gave me a massage at the end of the night, complete with a happy ending ;)

Touya and I stayed in bed snuggling and rewatching fucking the original Jersey Shore (we love stupid reality tv ok) until noon, and then we went to get lunch with Rei, Shoto and Fuyumi. Afterwards we went back home and took a lil nap together… we loooove being lazy together. When we woke up we went to dinner with Natsuo, and after we met up with our friends for karaoke!!! Touya kept teasing me and calling me a cougar all day because I am TWO MONTHS older than him. He's annoying and I hate him.

Keigo was a little FREAK about my birthday. At midnight he was like "what if I made you cum 29 times today?" and I told him I would probably DIE and that motherfucker had the audacity to be like "It's worth a shot!" ……. I did not let him do that because like I said, I would probably DIE, but we still had LOTS of fun sexy time. When we weren't doing that we decided to play Wii Sports and Wii Sports Resort because we were feeling nostalgic. He took me out for a fancy lil dinner we got to dress up for! Silly fun day with my silly fun freak.