#d.n.i.

For many of us our D.N.I’s are important, some may be more “community” standards others may reflect things you yourself find triggering or are otherwise uncomfortable with.

While I don’t disagree with the idea people are not “owed” an explination I do feel actually there are times when you might rather talk with them simple because we don’t always share the same sense of understanding.

Some of us have in real ife supervision needs because we may not see reliably the effect of what we did or even realize why that post we reblogged (or made) was not right. A persons understanding may fall short of what might be expected for their age.

Some of us prefer you to talk and help us when we make a “bad” post rather than casting us to one side.

It can be hard looking through several thousand posts that may go back eight years or more in case the post itself or the tags used at the time are seen as a problem now.

This is very true for those of us who are ill, often feeling tired,short of several spoons or like me you may have badly damaged hands struggling with keyboard and mouse and even need to be fed at times.