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Ahhh this guy sounds so annoying haha but I understand if you just want to smash. Personally i would keep teasing the idea with flirting and touching until you get more than just “he doesn’t mind”. Go for a “his body language or response says YES”. Then talk to him and say exactly what you want or don’t want from him. It’s less awkward if you talk about it while you both are feeling the pull rather than randomly mentioning you want a casual fling one day when you haven’t been flirting with him. That’s the easiest way to get your intentions straight. Key here: Tease then define it yourself to him before getting physical so nobody gets their feelings hurt.

Good luck! Love to hear updates :)

So he has a crush on you but he doesn’t want you to have a crush on him? I think if you want to keep pushing this I’d try to find out what exactly he’s not ready for by talking to him. Find out if it’s hes really busy—which you can counter by mentioning you’re willing to accompdate. OR if he’s just not ready to be “tied down” or exclusive which—if that’s what you want, I would take his response as sign to actually move on.

A lot of people feel like they want to be in a relationship but aren’t ready for the things that happen in it like meeting parents, and seeing each other all the time, and being physical...which can be negotiated. But others who aren’t ready because they want to play the field should not be negotiated with lol. But communication is so key here since you are friends first and don’t want to ruin that. :)

Good luck!