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so this week last sunday my girlfriend and i had a blow out crazy screaming fight about something my gay male coworker texting me. he picked up one of my shifts weeks ago and texted back "you owe me a sloppy blow job for this" and i just laughed and shrugged it off because i'm gay and he is gay as well. and he has a partner and so do i. with no interest in him or any other male for that matter. well apparently my girlfriend went through my phone and read it and it pissed her off, but she kept it to herself for weeks until last sunday when it came up and she BLEW UP. almost broke up with me. and made me text him and tell him he owed her an apology for disrespecting me, her and our relationship. so i texted him and ask/told him to apologize to her. well she didn't like his first apology so i told him to apologize again. so he did. well she didn't like that one either. and him an her began to argue. he told her i was a "catch" and that she was "lucky" that i put up with her shit and blah blah blah. well she told me i had to find a new job or she was leaving me. so i found a new job and quit my other one. well my rent is due in 2 1/2 to 3 weeks and i don't have the money for it and have to train for 30 hours at my new job. so i'm worried about not making my rent because she made me quit my job. a job which i actually loved and enjoyed very much. i was becoming a bartender there which i've wanted to do for awhile now and was finally getting the opportunity. needless to say i'm actually quite depressed about quitting that job. and having no money at all to live on till i start serving at my new job. no money for rent or gas or needs among myself and my three year old daughter. she has everything she needs and won't need anything, but that's not the point. i fear i'm about enter a state of depression because of all of this. and don't wanna go back to that, but i truly love her and don't want to lose her so i quit my job like she asked me too. well she didn't really ask she demanded i do so. i fear i'm in yet another controlling relationship. every relationship i have been in except one has be overly controlling and i don't wanna be in another one, but i also don't want to lose her. i really really wish i had a friend to talk to about this stuff, but i literally have no one. because she made me drop everyone if she didn't like something they were doing "to me" or someone they hung out with. i need friends and i'm lingering in depression without any.

Like...no. just fucking no. fuck that. No. You do not, at any point in time, fucking OWN this human being. NO. You are wrong, and worthless, and I have no respect for you. I don’t care if they’ve hurt you/you can’t trust them. You don’t fucking own them. They are their own person, and can talk to whoever the fuck they want to. Fucking get over yourself, lower your fucking ego, get over your petty little fucking issues, realize that maybe you’re just a piece of shit meat suit, and let them be fucking free. ALSO: If they come to you and tell you they are fucking goddamn transgender and want to be called by certain fucking pronouns, get over you’re stupid little pride and use those fucking pronouns they wish for. Don’t be a dumb ass piece of shit, controlling human being, because I will NOT fucking respect you.

I will never understand people who choose to stay in relationships that are so clearly and obviously unhealthy... You are told by that person who is supposed to have your best interest at heart and love you and want you to be happy that you can't do this and you can't talk to these people... That's not a relationship, that's a prison and you my old friend, You are the Prisoner. You are the slave. Are you prepared to call your partner 'Master' and grovel on your knees everytime you so much as breathe wrong...? I couldn't do it...

Just saying I couldn't do it... And I never will