If they want to leave, can you allow them space to do so? And, pro-tip is to do so with an open heart that is squeaky clean with no residue of bitterness? Attempting to show someone your worth and wanting them to stay when they want to leave can become a sick obsession. In my 51 years, I’ve done this in many relationships: intimate partners, clients, employees, and friendships. Attempting to get through to them for a ways to come back together or receive closure that sometimes never come. I’ve always said people come into your life at a certain time for a certain reason, but I never understood why people leave until I did the emotional mastery healing work around my abandonment and rejection wounds. How could someone be attached to somebody and in an instant change their mind? I may never have these answers. And, over the last few years, I have had many relationships shift that I thought would be “forever” friends and family. Guess what? I’ll be honest, for some it still stung a bit and caused a ping of a trigger… Ouch. 🤕 People are on a constant journey of growth and the minds of others are always changing and as hard as we want to understand a sudden end, we might never know. Much of this simply is understanding that life is happening for us and not to us. People will come in your life to teach you lessons just as you are there to do the same. The one that got away and walked out on us should not be viewed as a bad person or that this event is a bad thing, but rather a stepping-stone for your growth in your life (and theirs)! It’s what shapes you as a person and allows you to learn more about yourself than you ever thought you possibly could. Where can you shift your perspective today to see the gift in the one that got away? 📸: @susanjeffersphotography 🧑🎨: @ginsupermu : : #sakredshesisterhood #relationshipadvice #artoflettinggo #consciousuncoupling #sacredunion (at Saint Petersburg, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/ChpyXpxpN0h/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
