Confidence
“I have been at probably every powerful table that you can think of, I have worked at nonprofits, I have been at foundations, I have worked in corporations, served on corporate boards, I have been at G-summits, I have sat in at the U.N.: They are not that smart.”- Michelle Obama
As women, we have the impression that are not pretty enough, no smart enough, not good enough. We underestimate ourselves and overestimate others. Sometimes, we are our own worst enemies. We are so scared of failing that it prevents us from going after what we deserve.
As women in the business industry, or any industry for that matter, we must claim our confidence.
Realize the results you want. My goal is to make a name for myself in the nonprofit world. I do not want the grunt who does the work that is viewed by industry leaders are “entry level”, I want to be the one that makes things happen. Growing my knowledge and my reputation is important to me. When people see my name, I want them to think of me as an industry leader whose thoughts and opinions are greatly valued.
Evaluate the actions you need to take. Knowing what you want is only half the battle. You must come up with a plan to MAKE it happen. Obstacles might attempt to stand in your way, but you can break through those with confidence. You have the power to succeed.
Understand where your energy and feelings come from. Don’t let your thoughts and actions be driven by fear. Find your motivation and inspiration and make that the push you need to move forward.
What can you do to help you boost your confidence when going in to a high-stakes or stressful situation? Realize your high value thought or confidence mantra. Some people listen to songs to pump them up before starting the day or going in to a meeting. However, a simple phrase that you repeat to yourself before entering situations can provide the confidence boost you need to go in there and kick butt!
I am worthy, I am enough, I am woman!
