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Life Hack:⠀ ⠀ ⠀ When I feel a strong emotion/feeling come on, AND I’m mentally present enough, I will try to identify it and search the definition.(even though I know it) ⠀ I then will try to identify what the situational opposite of that feeling/emotion and seek its definition as well. ⠀ ⠀ We often use our emotions to inform our logic. ⠀ We often use our logic to inform our emotions. ⠀ I don’t believe either to be inherently or intrinsically connected. I think because we exist at the fork of these divergent, parallel paths we try to reconcile and justify one with the other. ⠀ ⠀ So, I show myself the map via these two definitions. There is no “right or wrong” to be inferred. Accept that this is a choice. ⠀ Decisions need context. Your character, honest deliberation, and the whole of the situation will help you choose. Allow a moment for you to quickly “live” in the world of both choices. “Try on” each reality for a minute. How does it feel?⠀ Which world would you rather live in today?⠀ ⠀ I’ve found that most “negative” feelings are a refusal to accept the given reality. That has value too though, as sometimes we’re meant to be fed up. Sometimes sadness or anger is the spark-emotion that starts the fire of positive change. ⠀ And other times ...we just be moody. 🤷‍♀️ ⠀ ⠀ Today my dominant feeling was level 8/10 rage⠀ And I defined the situational opposite as patience. ⠀ I chose patience. (with the caveat that I still reserve my right to rage at a later date 😈)⠀ ⠀ I hope you make time for this practice. Takes 1-5 minutes. It’s a useful tool. ⠀ ⠀ Meeting, monitoring and naming our emotions is tantamount to maintaining viable mental health. ⠀ (Some of us use medication, meditation, and various forms of therapy as well) ⠀ ⠀ I know...it’s really very clever. ⠀ I’m smart. 🧠 ⠀ (And funny,good-looking, cool and somehow very single..) ⠀ ⠀ Have a good day ...or whatever kinda day you choose. #CleverHashtag (at Somewhere on the Earth) https://www.instagram.com/p/B31vGhqA9-Z/?igshid=2dp8ncu8y2eo

No and No although there is this one time where Sans and Papyrus were watching an Action Movie with a Dude with a Bandana and shades who was smoking a cigarette all while riding on top of a moving race car. So Papyrus wanted to try it because it looked cool… but Papyrus did it wrong and put the lighter in his mouth instead of the cigarette and was freaking out since the fire was slowly coming closer to his mouth, but luckily Sans got home and basically was all like “*bro what in the hell are you doing!?” and came up with a lie to get Papyrus to never do that again… and Sans told Papyrus that he would explode if he were to do it again… and even to this day, Papyrus would never go near a Cigarette ever again.

Charting the disappearing #payphone #standingoutsideabrokenphonebooth #ivebeendownheartedbaby #cleverhashtag #getit

Time for an update. I estimate it’s been 3 months since a cut. Going to need to research conditioners for thick hair. I’ve read good things about cocoa butter. Additionally, I will be in the market for a baseball cap or two.

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Little hair of the dog that took quite a large chunk out of my ass yesterday. #cleverhashtag