Your Body Is Talking. Are You Listening? | MAHA Monday
I believe most people are not disconnected from their body because something is wrong with them. I believe they’re disconnected because they were never taught how to listen in the first place. From the beginning, the message has always been to push through, ignore it, get on with your day, and deal with things only when they become serious enough to demand attention. So that’s what people do. They wait, they override, they second-guess, and slowly, without even realizing it, they stop trusting what their body is trying to tell them. But your body does not suddenly break down one day out of nowhere. It communicates long before that point. It starts quietly, in ways that are easy to dismiss because they don’t feel urgent yet. A little more fatigue than usual. Sleep that doesn’t quite restore you. Digestion that feels slightly off. A sense that something isn’t right, even if you can’t explain why. These are not random inconveniences. They are early signals, and I cannot ignore how often those signals get brushed aside simply because they don’t seem important enough yet.
Why your body sends signals before symptoms become problems
Your body is built to adapt, compensate, and protect you for as long as it can. That means it rarely jumps straight into crisis. It gives you layers of communication first. Small shifts. Subtle changes. Patterns that repeat just enough to get your attention, if you are willing to notice them. The problem is not that the signals are absent. The problem is that most people have been taught not to see them as meaningful until they become impossible to ignore. The body whispers before it ever has to scream. Those whispers show up in ordinary ways that are easy to normalize. Feeling wired but exhausted. Hitting the same afternoon crash every day. Waking up at the same time every night. Getting headaches, tension, brain fog, or irritability that come and go without a clear reason. None of these always feels dramatic on its own, but together they form a pattern, and that pattern is often your body trying to get your attention before something deeper takes hold.
The signals you’ve been taught to ignore and what they may be telling you
I have seen how these small, repeated signals often point to an imbalance underneath the surface that has not been addressed yet. It may be nervous system overload from chronic stress. It may be blood sugar swings that leave you riding highs and lows all day. It may be gut irritation that shows up as bloating, fatigue, skin changes, or cloudy thinking. Whatever the source, the signal itself is not the enemy. It is the message. And when the message is ignored long enough, the signal does not disappear. It escalates. This is where so many people get confused, because it feels like things suddenly got worse. But most of the time, they did not suddenly get worse. They progressed. They moved from quiet nudges to louder warnings because nothing changed in response. If this feels familiar, it connects closely with Why You’re Tired Even After Sleeping, where I talked about the deeper disruptors that can quietly drain your system without ever announcing themselves clearly at the beginning.
Why we’ve learned to override instead of listen
This is not a personal failure. This is conditioning. Most people were never taught to pause and interpret what their body is doing. They were taught to function, perform, and keep going no matter what. And when something uncomfortable does show up, the immediate instinct is to suppress it so life can continue uninterrupted. We have normalized overriding our body instead of understanding it. Over time, that creates distance. You stop recognizing what true energy feels like. You forget what calm feels like in your own system. You begin to rely on external input instead of internal awareness, waiting for someone or something else to tell you what is going on instead of trusting what you already feel. This is part of the same pattern I talked about in Why You Feel Stuck No Matter What You Try, because often the issue is not a lack of effort. It is disconnection from what your body has been trying to say all along.
How to start listening again without overcomplicating it
This is where people often go wrong, because they assume reconnecting with the body requires some elaborate protocol. It does not. In fact, the more complicated you make it, the easier it becomes to miss what your body is already showing you. This starts with something much simpler, and much more honest. Start paying attention without immediately trying to fix what you notice. Watch for patterns. When does your energy drop during the day? What foods consistently leave you feeling off, even if they are marketed as healthy? When do you feel the most calm, and when do you feel the most overstimulated? When does your body feel safe, and when does it tighten up? These are not random observations. They are data points your body is giving you. From there, respond in small, practical ways. Adjust your pace when your body is asking for rest instead of forcing another push. Eat in a more consistent way if your energy is crashing every afternoon. Give your nervous system moments of quiet instead of constant input. Support digestion when your gut keeps telling you something is not working. None of that is flashy, but it matters, because it rebuilds trust between you and your body. The goal is not perfection. The goal is awareness. Once you start listening, your body becomes easier to understand, and when you understand it better, you can support it sooner, more gently, and with far more wisdom than waiting until it is in full distress. With love and truth, —Donna 💚
Sources & Further Reading
1. Making Sense of Interoception https://magazine.hms.harvard.edu/articles/making-sense-interoception 2. Interoception Is Our Sixth Sense, and It May Be Key to Mental Health https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/interoception-is-our-sixth-sense-and-it-may-be-key-to-mental-health/ 3. What is interoception, and how does it affect mental health? https://www.apa.org/monitor/2023/04/sensations-eating-disorders-suicidal-behavior 4. A roadmap to understanding interoceptive awareness in health and disease https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11150711/ 5. Interoception in anxiety, depression, and psychosis: a review https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2589537024002529
