Something that really fucking kills us about the "Dump your Puppygirl" thing is that like, everyone has already mentioned that it's crazy transmisogynistic but like. Personally, as a disabled person? One of our biggest fucking fears of all time is being a burden, is being 'the man who doesn't do the dishes'. Of being the person who lays around and does nothing. To leave our partners as the 'wife who does everything' and that, at the end of the day, all I am is a shitty 'man' who perpetuates misogyny. And for Dump your Puppygirl to so, laser hard focus on this thing, to accuse the puppygirl of in every way possible, to compare it to malicious incompetence. To the neglectful husband? To the shitty boyfriend? To the man to the man to he man. Way a shitty horrible way to use transmisogyny against the vulnerable members of our community. Sickening, and I know we cannot be the only ones to have this deep fear. Both as a disabled woman, and as a Trans Woman.
