𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖗𝖒 𝕵𝖆𝖘𝖒𝖎𝖆 𝖂𝖊𝖘𝖙𝖇𝖆𝖓𝖐𝖘
PART 1: THE BASICS
What is your full name? Charm Jasmia Westbanks
Where and when were you born? Miami Florida, April 14
Who are/were your parents? (Know their names, occupations, personalities, etc.) Shara Neal-Westbanks, She’s a stay at home mother who baked for fun. She’s a very sweet and caring woman who always put her family at the forefront of everything. Kareem Westbanks, he’s a retired boxer now. Despite him being an undefeated champ he’s one of the most kind and caring people you’d ever meet. Though he can be a bit intimidating at first but over time you’ll grow to love him.
Do you have any siblings? What are/were they like? Two brothers and a God sister
Where do you live now, and with whom? Describe the place and the person/people. I live a lone in a town house in Sherman Oaks. 3 bedrooms, 3 bathrooms, very high ceilings with large spacious rooms. The neighborhood is pretty quiet and very family orientated in which that’s something that I enjoy the most.
What is your occupation? CEO of Charmbox Co.
Write a full physical description of yourself. You might want to consider factors such as: height, weight, race, hair and eye color, style of dress, and any tattoos, scars, or distinguishing marks. Standing at 5 foot 7 with a slim thick frame I’m an african american woman of course you knew that. I have my hair currently dyed jet black, trust me it makes a huge difference, my eye color is a pretty deep brown. My dress style varies so much, some days I want to be extra girly and other days I just want to be on some chill in my own little world type vibes so I’ll put on something relaxing. I have a ton of tattoos. my favorite one by far is a bible scripture me and my best friends got when we were younger.
To which social class do you belong? Upper Class
Do you have any allergies, diseases, or other physical weaknesses? I’m allergic to Oranges but I will still take that risk because who doesn’t love a orange. No diseases or physical weakness.
Are you right- or left-handed? Right handed
What does your voice sound like? It’s a little raspy mixed in with like a medium tone. I don’t know what to really call it.
What words and/or phrases do you use very frequently? Clock itttt
What do you have in your pockets? Nothing in my pockets but what’s in my purse? My phone, wallet, house keys and car keys. Some snacks because who doesn’t need a good snack, hand santizer, lip gloss as well as a small little make up bag with some things to freshen up throughout the day and a comb, brush and hair tie just incase I need to wrap my hair up.
Do you have any quirks, strange mannerisms, annoying habits, or other defining characteristics? I wouldn’t say it’s a strange quirk but I do tend to bite the corner of my lip a lot when I’m watching tv or anything like that. Spending too much money is probably my most annoying habit that I have to this date.
PART 2: GROWING UP
How would you describe your childhood in general? My childhood was the best of literally everything. My dad always made sure that we had everything we wanted and the word no was really hard for me to understand until I became a teen. Our home was very comfortable and loving at all times. We spent most weekends on family outings which helped create such good bonds with my siblings and even personal relationships with my parents. We traveled a lot as a family as well as one on one time with one of our parents.
What is your earliest memory? My earliest memory is probably me being scared of my barbie jeep power wheel. My dad tried for weeks to get me to use that thing and I cried every single time lol.
How much schooling have you had? I graduated high school and went on the get a degree in business managment. Possibly thinking about going back.
Did you enjoy school? Yes
Where did you learn most of your skills and other abilities? From just living life. My mom taught me a lot as well but life is really just the best teacher honestly.
While growing up, did you have any role models? If so, describe them. My mother, she’s really everything that I aspire to be. She knows so much about life It’s never a silent moment with her when we’re talking about anything.
While growing up, how did you get along with the other members of your family? Yes I did, I love my family so much. I’m very big on spending time with family it really means a lot to me.
As a child, what did you want to be when you grew up? I think I wanted to be a hair dresser because every time I went to the salon and got my hair done I felt so pretty so I wanted to do the same thing for others. Make them feel just as pretty as I felt when I was a little girl.
As a child, what were your favorite activities? Probably playing piano and dance classes.
As a child, what kinds of personality traits did you display? I was very very very outspoken a true extrovert in every way ever.
As a child, were you popular? Who were your friends, and what were they like? I guess you can say that. My childhood friends are still my best friends to this day lol. I feel like all of my friends are all different. You have one that’s literally my twin, one that’s quiet but stands on business, one that’s gone do whatever and we got her bail money.
When and with whom was your first kiss? My first kiss was a boy name Jayvion Tyler and it was in middle school just being fast as hell.
Are you a virgin? If not, when and with whom did you lose your virginity? No i’m not and lol that’s not important.
PART 3: PAST INFLUENCES
What do you consider the most important event of your life so far? Most important event has to be the day I made my first Million from my business. I will never forget that day.
Who has had the most influence on you? My parents
What do you consider your greatest achievement? Owning and having a successful company.
What is your greatest regret? Breaking up with my ex, I miss my stink so bad!
What is the most evil thing you have ever done? most evil thing I’ve done was probably bust my ex’s windows out her car and slashed all her tires.
Do you have a criminal record of any kind? No I do not.
When was the time you were the most frightened? When I was in a wreck, I thought my life was over because I had to learn just the most basic things about life all over again.
What is the most embarrassing thing ever to happen to you? Probably falling at the bowling alley, very much so stayed on the floor because now I’m hurt just let me be for a minute.
If you could change one thing from your past, what would it be, and why? I’m not changing a thing! I love everything about me and what i’ve been through.
What is your best memory? My best memory is when all of my family came together for a family reunion and we literally spent a week in a cabin in the middle of winter just bonding and having a good time with each other.
What is your worst memory? Probably getting into a car wreck the day I graduate college. That day was probably the happiest and the saddest day of my life but I survived and I’m blessed.
PART 4: BELIEFS & OPINIONS
Are you basically optimistic or pessimistic? Optimistic
What is your greatest fear? Hmm, probably losing my parents.
What are your religious views? Baptist
What are your political views? At this point, I just want somebody better than who we have now that is going to actually care about this country.
What are your views on sex?..have it, lots of it but stay protected.
Are you able to kill? Under what circumstances do you find killing to be acceptable or unacceptable? No, but if my life on the line then yes of course they’re dying.
In your opinion, what is the most evil thing any human being could do?…R*pe, because there is nothing to ever justify doing that to anyone.
Do you believe in the existence of soul mates and/or true love?…Yes I do.
What do you believe makes a successful life? Finding your own true happiness in life and just being able to live your life as yourself unapologetically.
How honest are you about your thoughts and feelings (i.e. do you hide your true self from others, and in what way)? I hide my thoughts and my feeling a lot because not everyone is capable of understanding I don’t agree with something but I still can like you as a person.
Do you have any biases or prejudices? I would like to say I don’t but in my opinion I feel that’s a lie.
Is there anything you absolutely refuse to do under any circumstances? Why do you refuse to do it? Theres a lot of things I refuse to do. If things don’t align with me morally im not doing it.
Who or what, if anything, would you die for (or otherwise go to extremes for)? My parents or my brothers.
PART 5: RELATIONSHIPS W/OTHERS
In general, how do you treat others (politely, rudely, by keeping them at a distance, etc.)? It can start off polite and end up however they treat me back. You ignore me, I ignore you. You disrespect me I’m taking it there too. Does your treatment of them change depending on how well you know them, and if so, how? No it doesn’t.
Who is the most important person in your life, and why? My middle brother and because he just deserves all the love in the world. My sweetheart.
Who is the person you respect the most, and why? My Parents and because it’s a lot of things they could have had but they put family first and things still turned out great in the end.
Who are your friends? Do you have a best friend? Describe these people. Koryn; she’s super sweet, very caring and nice. She’s a fun girly girl to the core! She’s somebody that I can talk to and know that I’m not being judged for how I feel about things. She makes me feel like everything in life will be okay even when I probably cry about things that don’t matter. She’s been my girl ten toes down and I love her for that so much.
Do you have a spouse or significant other? If so, describe this person. A boyfriend, he’s very protective and intentional. He’s a dream actually sometimes I feel like he’s too good to be true just because of how he treats me and just how he views life.
Have you ever been in love? If so, describe what happened. Yes, umm it was love. It didn’t last so yeaaa.
What do you look for in a potential lover? I have everything I need right now. But if I had to say it would be somebody that is understanding, with a great sense of humor and laid back. Protective but doesn’t overly do it. Someone that is close with their family and has good relationships with them as well. I love somebody that can do things vs paying somebody to handle things. I love a nice big strong country man!
How close are you to your family? Extremely
Have you started your own family? If so, describe them. If not, do you want to? Why or why not? No I haven’t, I want a daughter one day. Because I feel like I deserve to give this world another human being that will grow up and change the world.
Who would you turn to if you were in desperate need of help? My parents
Do you trust anyone to protect you? Who, and why? My parents and aside from them my man, because he said he wanna give me the world so I know he’ll protect me.
If you died or went missing, who would miss you? My family, Koryn and my man 😭
Who is the person you despise the most, and why? Nobody
Do you tend to argue with people, or avoid conflict? I haven’t had a need to argue with anybody. If I don’t like something I remove it from my life. Argue with the wall I do not care.
Do you tend to take on leadership roles in social situations? No
Do you like interacting with large groups of people? Why or why not? Sometimes. I don’t always like being in social settings, I’m more so of a small scale girl with close friends and small gatherings I love intimacy.
Do you care what others think of you? A normal person would say something like no I don’t care. But deep down everyone cares how others view them or how they think of them. So yes to a certain degree I care, but never to the point where I’m changing who I am to fit into some unrealistic expectations of others.
