Things you need to know...the newer and more improved version
This blog started as a way for me to work through the process of being on my own. I’ve been touched by how many people have reached out and said it speaks to them, both male and female. Many times we think we’re alone in how we feel, but then we find we aren’t!
A lot has happened since this blog began. If you’re interested in the emotional journey, I chronicled that in @howdoiloveagain. It is more personal and is best followed from the oldest posts. Between the two blogs, there are a few years of sexual and emotional discovery and healing. However, if you’re only interested in my sexual thoughts (and those are definitely the most fun!), just stay here. 😁
Messages are always open, but here’s a few things to know:
I do love hearing from followers, but life just doesn’t allow me to spend the amount of time chatting that I’d like to. Feel free to say hi and I will likely respond, but maybe not immediately.
If you ask a question that is clearly already answered in my blog description or in this post, you are on the way to block city. Why is anyone surprised at my age?? I told you already. 🙄
Be respectful. Don’t start off with personal questions. Like how often I masturbate (answer: enough).
Yes, the little thumbnail is me.
Although not impossible, if you're under 50, we probably don't have much in common.
I’m very happily in a relationship.
If you're still reading at this point, kudos to you. Are you a glutton for punishment? 😂 I do update this post periodically, so check back for more!
That’s it for now. Thanks for being here.












