Hey Ika! I hope you're doing well (and if not, sending love your way) :) For sleepover Saturday, I was wondering about your unpopular opinions on Crassus and Casca (and their very intense homoerotic relationship) Alsoooo wondering about your headcanons on how homophobia progressed in the Districts after Snow's presidency and how that affects the Capitol (if that is something you're comfortable with talking about of course) just cause I loved your original analysis of homophobia in the Capitol.
Hmmmmm and then maybe a movie recommendation? (I need to watch more movies I watch literally none lol) and just in general... how are you? How's your university?
That's all for now! Take care <3
A WEEK LATE BUT WELL HERE COMES THE ANSWER. First sorry bby grace for taking so long but I wanted to take my time to write long replies and well last week uni had me busy with stuff but now I'm free (At least for a week *dance*). NOW (after sleep 8 hrs) I'm great <3 thanks for asking and yooou bby grace?? How is everything going this week for uuu? besides the fact that global warming is trying to melt us ofc ofc.
Opinion little popular. well I don't know how unpopular the word may be because people hardly talk about snowbottom lmao but I think it's that for me casca WAS NOT a victim of crassus in any way. or not the way casca implies at least.
I clarify that this is obvious obvious my interpretations and deductions, i think the text in canon does promote a certain idea, in particular to establish a certain connection between snowbottom and my hiatus ship, with friendships and betrayals, but reading a bit too much over certain lines I got some conclusions... explaining them, we need start that the thing for me is that casca was not really in a vulnerable situation respect to crassus to begin with.Â
as casca is born and raised in the capitol, and most likely from a wealthy family similar to the snows. So casca being friends with crassus blood drinking districts is too different from sejanus being friends with coriolanus. even if they both had some awareness that the snows suck, bc well sejanus was in a desperate situation, he literally had to beg for crumbs of human decency as no one wanted to be his friend,
While I 100% believe Sejanus was aware that Coriolanus was bigoted (like everybody in Capitol honestly) and that he also own many other personality flaws, coriolanus still was worth of be his friend bc he never openly showed the particular hatred he felt for his family (snow worm was actually polite and kind in his behavior -if not in his thoughts- with Ma, for example) and he actively did certain actions that showed he cared about people in a way not usually seen in the Capitol (a particular kindness, let's say), even if again some his actions weren't healthy at all (like snow obviously concern about sejanus in d12 at his eyes, but he show it by be controlling and rude and sejanus not blink never at that, which is worry).Â
Well, all of that, I don't think that was the case with Snowbottom at all.
crassus wouldn't have to hide in any way that he's violently bigoted with casca. I don't think he would pretend anything with him. and casca decided to be his friend because he genuinely liked crassus as a whole and, dare I say, because they thought similarly, like they probably shared worldwide in many aspects pre-war (I think a lot about the fact he himself admit the ideas of the games were JOKES. and private JOKES. the homework wasn't a casual talk -and I would still side eye if was purely a casual talk- but how disconnect you need be of certain aspects in life to the jokes with your bestie be about hypothetical scenarios of CHILDREN OF AN ENEMY DYING in such a CRUEL WAY, the only scenario I can think of the joke not being such negative shit its if casca visualize the games as some absurd / silly thing but again casca not think the games were a stupid concept, he himself say he was clever for it. which made it all sinister to me, and while I believe a lot he changed his views after war, there's something to say about him probably gaining mostly the knowledge of the districts as people under the you can't underestimate your enemy, again that's mostly shit he say in text, districts got some value since in war proof they weren't stupid nor inferior to capitol people, since they proved be a threat).Â
I don't think casca couldn't make other friends, I don't think he was excluded and although he is well aware of crassus' other crimes, he still just seem bother with the fact that crassus failed to him personally, more than the extreme big chances of crassus abusing his wife (I think definitive the phrases about mrs snow implied heavy an abusive relationship, but even if not still they made clear wasnt a perfect relationship nor good, and casca say aloud it was MRS SNOW WHO CHOSE SELF DESTRUCTION, it come mostly from Collins views of course but inner universe, Im again side eye casca so bad for that. bc I think we all can agree if the relationship wasn't nice, it probably was bc of crassus treating bad mrs. snow -my baby julia in my hcs- bc mrs snow its described as kind, and we see Panem its very patriarchal and in particular snow family had proof some sexism very bad.) or the games killing children matter even (theres something to be say, casca its well aware gaul and the system as a whole its what allow the games to continue, this a thing actually reasonable coriolanus point out to him, why hold such grudge against crassus if hes fucking death? he literal die BEFORE THE GAMES START! but still casca its mad to be USED than be saying omg children are dying he's 99% grumbling bc HIS EX USED HIM. on why I said he sucks so bad but not for what most people think I'm afraid. tho I don't mean he not felt guilty and bad and tormented by the games and his participation but its notable he keep using crassus to let go his anger.)Â Â
which led me to the so-called biggest betrayal. That's the mess of the scholar project but I personally think it's more interesting if this is more similar to the snowcote situation (in coriolanus really NEVER WANTED HURT CLEMENSIA. HOW THE HELL HE WOULD KNOW GAUL WOULD DO THAT LMAO), that's crassus wasn't trying to use casca to get only a good grade, like of course it was part of why he do it, but too casca admit he was gonna fail gaul class and pluribus gossiper and witness neutral over them, say he remember crassus saying to casca he do him a favour.Â
so to me crassus honestly thought by delivering the project he was helping casca. I think it's funnier and add in how the games were this theoretical shit that crossed all limits to become an horrendous reality (that I would argue made sense since the theory was born from a not so nice place already! since again casca and crassus were both very disconnect from the districts suffering and struggles to see beyond gaul asking homework, thinking the enemies were non existing, without see under their feets oppression and abuse will explode in their faces years later with a war bc they got an enemy of their own invention by benefit from their starve and death.Â
to me gaul see it coming btw, why probably she asked the damn project in the first place, def one of the many things I believe war proved she being right from her worldview.)
NOW ABOUT HOMOPHOBIA. I THINK THERE ARE TWO THINGS GOING ON. To me the reception of homosexuality in the capitol and districts are different, but let's get to it, I think coriolanus grew up in a relatively conservative environment in general with respect to this issue, especially in the upper class, kind of what I described with Bell about how there is no criminalization or direct institutionalization but there is some censorship of more kinky expressions of homosexuality, very puritanical thing you know? I think gay marriage existed but in a fairly limited way compared to heterosexual marriage rights, and this goes on all through his youth, hardener a bit post war with very rigid gender roles.Â
until eventually you start to see a tendency in capitol to open up about homosexuality, I think the middle class especially is the one that undergoes a cultural change and probably demands more equal rights and perhaps the elimination of certain informal but discriminatory practices (like this slight censorship I think there might be in the media about not showing homosexual relationships, it is possible in certain jobs, especially concerning the government you could be fired if your sexuality was discovered, denial of same sex couples to get access to same healthcare, etc), by the time of katniss I think even the upper class has already opened up to the subject, although retaining the typical structures of heirs instead of children, marriage contracts, marriages of convenience and practice at the same time of exploit poorer people in capitol by subrrogate pregnacies or in eugenics practices like babies labs.
now I think that coriolanus approved of homosexuality and made it possible? em. yes and no. ITS A BIT COMPLICATE.
one aspect that for me coriolanus has to his advantage is that he is an absolute hypocrite lmao
he measures himself by certain terms and other people by others, as I said in my personal perspective coriolanus probably didn't see it right that pluribus was a feminine gay man to certain extend, again the minute he got mad at him he decided to criticize the way bell dress and the fact that he misses his dead husband? but as long as bell doesn't mess with him, coriolanus will be absolutely fine with him being gay.
but when it comes to himself, well yes he will have strong opinions, while I usually describe coriolanus as a straight man who became obsessed with a man rather than actually bisexual, my perspective is usually when I go under the he was actually bisexual it's that he would be extremely homophobic internalized, so he would deny himself the chance to have a relationship with a man bc he couldn't accept his attraction to them. I think that if he did at some point it was probably under prostitution (not directly seeking it himself, but as if letting someone take him to a brothel/gift him a winner to convince him of something) with someone younger and âeffeminateâ because he would like to think he is the "real man" (althought could be maybe too outside that environment) and if he did allow himself to be penetrated by another man more "masculine" or got a relationship with, I can imagine it went very badly for the poor guy involved since snow would be very paranoic about his reputation.
however that is his personal aspect, I think publicly yes he would look to insert himself in a heterosexual narrative, perfect wife and children, all "normal", but wouldn't mind in the end let capitol go more homosexual friendly, but it will be of course under his own terms and to his favour. for example one aspect I can see he benefit it's to promote the idea the districts are homophobic (and they were but exactly by his intervention and propaganda, in particular I can see snow ban homosexuality from peacekeeper service, the type of shit you can be expulsed from it, and like peacekeeper we know was a common way to people from the districts to get a decent payment and it's related a bit to social ascention inner districts. he would do this as some form of control, along other things made in subtle ways to forced in the districts heteronormative ideas, by propaganda, made tesselas and other "benefits" exclusive of straight marriages, I think districts not having marriage for same sex couples but instead some type of adoption or free union may be other! along let in the districts that usually are more brutalized by the peacekeepers like d11 or d12, allow the peacekeepers can put gay people in jail! only thing I consider form new book. but I feel the homophobia again in districts its a very thing of its own were many aspects would affect like class social inner districts, again I'm sure some workers class can be more indifferent or chill about it than the middle - upper classes inside the districts, etc.)
like sorry guys but I can see capitol citizens complaining about how on their vacation for d4, some locals judge two men that kiss in public, so really those people saying they should spend their precious tax dollars on giving free medical help to the districts, are stupid! the districts hate you! they would burn you alive if they knew you were gay!!!!! #snowlandsontop2089 #reelectpresidentsnow #capitolforcapitols
I MEAN. coriolanus wasn't exactly cheering them but he def wasn't complainning over them neither. I think he would have applied a little bit of what he did with sejanus, like he's not necessarily open about being anti gay or pro gay, just act indifferent, let certain things happen when it's inevitable and let everyone think what they want, like yes he hired that senator because he's gay, sure.
finally about the movies...
seeing moonlight on your list gave me the idea and since you like languages and their conflicts I offer you:
SueĂąo en otro idioma. <3 its a mexican lgbt+ film and ITS VERY GOOD. its focused in the lost of indigenous languages too.
other two options that may you like check:
Chicuarotes. this one I think for that time we talk abt snowfall series, since got in similar topics but ofc in MĂŠxico this time.
Huesera: the bone woman. terror lgbt+ mexican film. focused in maternity horrors, gender roles, and lesbians!!! its such a good movie I swear.
Love you bby grace. Hope u enjoy it!