I don't know which fem queer people need to hear this right now, but body hair is not inherently masculine. whether society is telling you that as a bad thing or a well-meaning fellow queer person is telling you that as a good thing
you are not less feminine for having body hair. if you're a woman, you're not less of a woman for having body hair. most adults have body hair regardless of biological sex, and certainly regardless of gender
removing body hair is not necessary to be feminine. not removing body hair does not make you look masculine. most feminine-presenting people did not remove leg, armpit, or pubic hair for most of western history post-Roman Empire and pre-1915, and even a large number left it alone for decades after that. your gender presentation does not require hairlessness and I love you
