Jul 27, 2017
Day 10: The Asexual Agenda
When in doubt I draw my sisters OC’s. This is Alma an asexual spy! Character belongs to @calidotheprophet
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Day 10: The Asexual Agenda
When in doubt I draw my sisters OC’s. This is Alma an asexual spy! Character belongs to @calidotheprophet
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
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To the person who talked about feeling ashamed of their asexuality. I'm dealing with the same thing. I can't count the times I've chickened out of a relationship cause I don't want to deal with the conversation of my sexuality, or the amount of guys that bailed out when they found out. I've wished I wasn't asexual a lot of time, and sometime I even find myself hoping that maybe I'm just depressed and it will all pass when I'm happy again. Lately though, it's gotten better, and I'm more proud now
A redraw of something my sister drew a couple of years ago
I don’t even remember why I followed you :/ you were just there one day and now I’m attached
you’re valid anon a lot of people don’t actually remember why they followed me ahaha
(via https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eVsU6EX3Mks)
The trailer for my musical Beyond the Gate is here! I’m so happy and excited! I can’t wait to finally get to see it up on stage!
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I'd like to thank you for making me a low-key walking dead fan. Not to the point where I'm brave enough to watch it, but more to the point where I'm genuinly hoping Glenn is alive, so thanks :)
that’s amazing :’) you have no idea how happy that makes me.
you’re welcome though! ♥
Hi, I feel superconflicted, cause like, on one hand, I get the whole free the nipple thing, cause it helps stop the slutshaming which is super good, but on the other hand I don't want to see anyone's nipple, or ass, or genitals, cause I'm prude and asexual, so everytime I do see either of them I kinda look away or scroll past it and I don't know, maybe that's internalized misogony, and I don't mean it like that, but I'm thinking what if it is, and I should just look at it anyway
A few thoughts:
Nipples shouldn’t be compared to genitals. Seeing a flash of someone’s nipple while breastfeeding, for instance, is not at all like seeing someone without their underwear on.
You’re not a prude for not wanting to see someone’s naked or partially naked body. Everyone has the right to decide for themselves what they’re comfortable with at any given time.
That said, it would be rude to ask a parent breastfeeding their child to stop just because you’re uncomfortable with how their baby is fed. There is nothing sexual about breastfeeding an infant, and if someone views it that way it’s because of what they are bringing to the situation, not the situation itself.
When we’re not talking about breastfeeding, but rather freeing the nipple in order to break down sexist stereotypes about typically female bodies and the sexualization of typically female bodies, our discomfort may partially be internalized misogyny. The voice that tells us that women are sluts for baring their chests the way that men do and that being topless is an inherently sexual act. I think it’s important to address and modify that way of thinking, and seeing non-sexual images of breasts of people of all genders is one way of doing that, but it’s not the only way.
Don’t feel like you have to or that you should look at images that make you uncomfortable. Try to analyse why you feel that way, but don’t feel bad for being uncomfortable with nudity.
Learning about feminism was great for me because it taught me that it's okay for me to be feminine when I want to be, and I remember I used to really dislike feminists and feminism because I thought it meant that I had to be strong and that feminists were against women showing emotions that weren't strong. (God I'm so embarressed of my past self). So I'm glad that I know better now, it taught me a lot.
It seems like where you are now is a much happier place to be!
How has learning about feminism helped you learn about and fight back against sexism?
What do you wish you would have known about sexism when you were younger? What advice would you now give to your younger self?