Just wanted to give some advice for the anon having pain during penetration:
I had a similar experience with my partner and I ended up going to the gynecologist and she recommended trying out vaginal dilators. They have been very helpful to getting used to the feeling of penetration. They also start very small, like the size of a finger, and go up in size gradually. Lube is also your friend if your feeling dry! But if possible I would definitely agree with the recommendation of going to the gyno because they can tell you if there’s something actually there. I know I was definitely spiraling and worried that my hymen was in the way or that my vagina was just abnormally small/short because it felt like my partner was hitting a wall and he could only get the tip in. In my situation, it turns out I just wasn’t used to the sensation at all and it took some time to get there physically and mentally. Try not to feel discouraged because this is more common than you think! 😊
Fuck heteronormative society and media for making us think penetration is the simplest thing!
Sharing for the painful penetration anon and anyone else who could use it! Yes dilators are definitely useful in some of these situations
