#but i cracked the code

You know the same way we project our insecurities onto others and despise them when we see them embody traits we subconsciously dislike in ourselves, there is a positive other side of the coin to this where we see positive qualities in others that are also latent in ourselves but we never got the chance to nurture and develop them, and we project this positive traits onto this people and start to deeply admire them, gravitate towards them, feel an attraction to them (what type of attratction depends on the context).

What I feel like ppl struggle with the most nowadays on a subconscious level and somewhat superficially aware level is tolerance for embarassment. In a world where everything is constantly recorded and everyone has access to you 24/7, a world that tells you "be yourself but be good at it", it feels almost impossible to nurture in us the courage to fearlessly embarass ourselves. So when we see someone doing that we admire them and feel a pull towards them instantly.

Another thing humans are wired to be instantly pulled towards is familiarity (familiar faces for instance)

Now ... if someone were to get a bunch of conventionally attractive people to be unashamedly silly and embarass themselves publically for 30 minutes to an hour literally everyday ...