#breast flogging

Dear Diary, 

I had a date scheduled for Saturday. Get a hold of this shit. I  don't need this stupid drama. I offhandedly mentioned that an established play partner showed up for a brief flogging. And Saturday dude goes off on me. He starts accusing me of being a cocktease and saying that I was playing a game with him because I didn't see him last Saturday and I didn't invite him over for tonight. He calls me all sorts of names and cancels the date. 

Me: For the record I'm not now nor have I ever been a cocktease. I don't play bullshit games. Last Saturday I had a date that was scheduled before you had my number and tonight was an unexpected visitor. Him: Justify it however you want. Me: No. This isn't justifying. This is honesty. Let's be clear here. You're upset that I had a date scheduled before you had my number and an established partner showed up unannounced tonight. You never mentioned to me that you were available tonight. And you're cancelling our date because of this. Seems to me that you're the tease. Him: I said how about tonight and you said Saturday and then you tell me someone came over tonight.    Me: Let me scroll through the messages. If you said something about tonight it either didn't come through or it didn't register to me. One moment. *scrolls through messages* Me: There is no mention of you being available tonight. So, should I have left last Saturday open for a guy who had not asked me out and did not yet have my number? Should I have told my friend to leave tonight because of a  guy who did not tell me he was available tonight and with whom I do not have an established rapport in the event that he might possibly be available? Dude...really? You're cancelling a date because of that?  Him: Yes. Really. Me: OK. Tell you what. I'll not schedule anything tomorrow for Saturday. Give you time to think about this. Seems rude to not grant you some cooling off time. If I don't hear from you tomorrow, I'll schedule something.  Him: Go ahead and make other plans. Me: OK. Diary, I don't want for play partners. I know a lot of kinksters. I've played with some and I've not yet played with some. Two have been asking for something serious, but I don't see good long term stability between us. Sure, there's not a lot of sex (meaning cock in pussy/ass), but it's always a very good time and I have plenty of orgasms. I do not need this kind of drama. He can go fuck himself. The only nickname I can think of to give him would be an insult to people who have mental illnesses; ergo, he doesn't even get a nickname.  On the upside, the breast flogging tonight was really refreshing. A bit harder than how I normally play. I suspect I'll have bruises for while. I'm developing a love affair with blindfolds. And now Saturday is open.