6, 9, and 16 for the sapphic selfship ask game! Pick whatever f/o you wanna talk about :3
thank you!! gonna do simon bc it's been awhile since i talked about him :3 (also ugh sorry late answer i finished this the same day u sent it but wanted to edit it before posting and then never got around to it lol)
Rina Sawayama : Do you or your F/O(s) ever wear makeup? If so, what kind of makeup or what styles? Do you ever do each other's makeup?
yes for both but rarelyyyy very rarely and usually if he has it on its for a show or he's humoring me. ive def gotten him to start doing some messy liner and just a touch of red eyeshadow for gigs so he looks vaguely sick but if it's just us sometimes ill put a lil lippy on him for the hell of it and im So Totally Normal About It
Rio Romeo : If asked, how would your F/O(s) describe you to someone who had never met you before? How would you describe your F/O(s) to someone who had never met them?
god simon is very much this
but if he had to it'd be something along the lines of like "about ye big, big ass eyes like a fuckin' baby cow and these big ass frames that just make em look bigger and- and i mean, they can be a cunt, but they're a goddamn sweetheart, really, but- clearly they have a fuckin' problem staying put" just a lowkey aggressive description that doesn't sound necessarily complimentary but if you know him then you Know it is
for me it'd be like "hold on lemme pull out this piccy of my beautiful butch that i keep in my wallet, yes he does look homicidal, that's how he looks when he's happy, dw, he's a sap"
She/Her/Hers : If you or your F/O(s) is gender non-conforming or not cisgender, how does that impact your relationship? What does gender affirmation look like to you or your F/O(s)?
im nonbinary and gender to him is very *waves hand* like he's my butch he's my girlfriend he thinks its cute when i feminize the fuck out of him but its not really something he seeks out. rly the only way it does impact our relationship is that if he was with someone else he'd probably just be called their boyfriend all the time and he wouldnt rly be called by any fem terms but with me its a huge part of the relationship. he does love being called my girlfriend or different fem endearments tho like it feels very personal to us, its not something he imagines would happen in another relationship and that's sweet to him. it gives him a chance to explore that side of him more.