#bloo vent

I figured out that listening to "glowing snow" at any time of day just makes me depressed, but god I love it anyway....

 I hate the word “Valid”. I want to vent a sec about this. Egg culture in the trans community, useless, utterly useless, throw it out into the trash. Egg culture is trash and that’s it, its fucking dumb and always has been. Valid is a word way to often in trans spaces, sometimes you *arent* valid, sometimes you don’t pass and it doesn’t help anyone to tell them they do, or have people hug box you into accepting your “uwu male body because you’re male so any way you present is male now” Thats not how it works or i wouldn’t be dysphoric about my FEMALE body and GENITALIA, and BOOBS. These things aren’t *male*, they are female sex characteristics. Its so much worse to tell someone they pass or “ohh girl your makeup is bomb!” When in fact its messy and the dark and the only thing on their face. Just because someone is trans, doesn’t mean they need to be hug boxed and “validated” Sometimes people need a kick in the ass to help them, and when i say kick in the ass, i mean ADVICE. Like “Girl, you should ass eye shadow and some eyeliner, you’d look sooo good.” Or even a fuckin “My dude, you’re hair is nice, but i think it looked better like this” Or something.  Back to egg culture, i’ve been immersed in it to just see how the ‘other half’ handle it and holy FUCK, not everyone is trans just because they *feel* like they are, validating “trans” feelings doesn’t help, facts and advice do. Sometimes a feeling is just a feeling, a passing feeling that doesn’t mean anything. Sometimes a kink is a kink and nothing more, don’t encourage people to transition or come out as trans if they aren’t sure, don’t coddle them because if they ‘become transgender’ the world isn’t going to treat them with open accepting arms like egg hatchers do. Thats not to say all people who come seeking advice aren’t trans, but the majority are just kids who want to be accepted and this isn’t the way to do it.  Questioning people need real hard truth, advice, and suggestions to talk to people irl who might help. Real Life Experience is important and “validating” people online isn’t good for the mental health of people just wanting to be accepted. I hate the word Valid, as if i dont already know i’m valid. I know who i am, i don’t want to be coddled and told i look like a man when i don’t, i don’t want to be asked my pronouns and orientation because of “uwu acceptance” if i don’t pass, i want to be told, or more likely, i already know i don’t so don’t remind me, give me advice. Do Not “Validate” Me, or my “twans male body uwu” I don’t need you to tell me im a man, i know i am, I just have a female body. 

I hate this fandom (affectionate)

This isnt the first time something of this caliber has happened but oh my god it never gets better.