#block evasion

I imagine there is no point in going to tumblr. They continue to make blogs with the same or similar name, and follow me after I block them. Its very obsessive behavior, and concerning. This blog has a pinned post and Oddly I fall under several types of people who will be "going to hell".

I have no idea what to do, but they definitely have my username memorized. Its creepy.

Going as far as constantly making new blogs to follow my blog after I block them over a dozen times. I have so many emails with this username following me after I blocked them. Its just really fucked up and obsessive.

Hi, nonnie. I'm not exactly sure what you're asking here. But it's Monday and I haven't had my caffeine yet! 😂

As far as anonymity, I do like having some on this site. My blog is my space to be personal without putting everything on display. You lovelies, for example, know I'm a mom with two kids, but most of you don't know my name (Navy is my nickname thanks to my blog) and I will never share the names of my kiddos here. There are boundaries. We all have them.

And with boundaries, anonymity doesn't mean ignoring them. I strongly advise against block evasion. If someone blocks me, they have blocked me and that's that. It may hurt, but they have set a boundary and it should be respected. Anonymity is about privacy and not disrespecting boundaries or someone else's "no".

My focus is on curating my space, making and respecting boundaries, and to thirst over (and write for) fictional men with you lovelies.

I hope this makes sense and answers your question.

Yes, I did have a stalker, and possibly still do, but I’m alright now. I made a well-documented callout post about her fixation with me, and the baiting, the trolling, the hate‑mongering, and the way she kept putting a target on my back in comment sections that had absolutely nothing to do with me. My original callout covered a whole span of her behavior throughout October 2025.

And the important thing is this: I didn’t even know the stalking was happening until a friend warned me about it. I never met her. I never interacted with her. Not once.

She developed a really scary anti‑parasocial relationship/obsession with me just because I have mostly crossover ships, “hardly any canon ones,” and make moodboards and manips/edits, which she considered as “borderline copyright infringement,” “not real art,” “off‑putting,” and “shoddy.” She also inserted herself into a completely different controversy where I called out another user for their years of abuse and bullying. Not even the victims of that user or anyone I knew had any idea who my stalker was.

After she block‑evaded me yet again, she found the callout post I made about her. That’s when she snapped and block‑evaded me harder just to keep harassing me. She monitored my online activity intensely, and dog‑piled me with harassment posts, memes, and meltdowns nonstop for two and a half months, which took a real toll on my mental and emotional health. She also harassed my friends and others, and she had a history of harassing/stalking another user two years earlier, proving this wasn’t a new behavior or pattern. Eventually, her account was deactivated, and my friends and I finally got some peace.

Sadly, this answer doesn’t even cover the full magnitude of what my stalker did or what it did to me and my friend. I have a fully polished Google document with everything laid out, but I don’t think I’m ready to share it or talk about it in detail right now. I’m still trying to heal from the narcissistic abuse I went through, the mental and emotional trauma it caused, and the way it affected my sense of self and safety online.

And if she ever decides to come back again, little does she know that by harassing me and escalating things so relentlessly, she ended up giving me a mountain of evidence that meets the legal criteria for cyber harassment, cyberbullying, and cyberstalking. I will take action if I have to, because she repeatedly violated my boundaries even after I politely asked her to stop and even offered her a peace offering.

The California law (Penal Code §646.9 + §653.2) defines cyberstalking and cyber harassment as:

Repeated, unwanted contact

Repeated Emails, Posts, Comments, and Mentions Targeting the Victim

False accusations of serious crimes or deviant acts

Monitoring someone’s online activity

Harassment that causes fear, distress, or emotional harm

Using electronic communication to intimidate or torment

For context she's a trans woman but a radical feminist, not a terf, just radical feminist, and especially a swerf

And I blocked her after realizing this

And she keeps making new accounts to send me asks asking me to unblock her so that "we can talk"

And do y'all have any advice?

I’m sorry anon, that really sucks. First, most important, if you’ve been answering those asks, stop. That might lead to increased harassment while she tries to get your attention, but replying to her isn’t helping and if she were going to be convinced to stop by words she would have by now. Second, consider turning off anons or even your askbox and/or messages entirely for a couple days if you feel like you need to for your health. Basically you want pestering you to feel utterly pointless and/or impossible, in the hopes that that’ll get through to her once talking hasn’t. And finally, if she says something off anon/reportable, do it, there’s no excuse for harassing someone who’s made it clear they want to just be left alone. Take care of yourself, this is a shitty thing and you shouldn’t have to deal with it.

I don't think it's weird, nonnie. I think it's a natural reaction to feel caught off guard at the very least. As I stated in a similar ask here, just don't let yourself stay in that headspace of feeling upset or questioning things. They are setting a boundary, and getting blocked isn't a reflection of your worth.

I've had people send me gif sets and fics only for me to find that I can't open them. Same boat as you that they were blogs I didn't interact with. When that happened, I respected the decision and moved on. And I strongly advise against block evasion.

Hi, nonnie. I'm combining these in one response as I assume they're all from you. I'm sorry if that isn't the case.

I answered a similar ask here with someone feeling worried after being blocked. It can feel icky, shocking, sad, hurtful when you realized you're blocked. I don't know if this is someone you spoke with regularly or didn't interact with at all, but you can allow yourself to grieve before letting it go. As I said in the response I linked here, don't stay in the grieving headspace. It isn't good for you.

I get the temptation to block evade, but I strongly advise against it. The boundary was enforced by the blocker for one reason or another and block evasion is disrespecting that boundary.

Think of it this way: If you blocked someone to protect your peace, how would you feel if they disrupted it again?

I hope this helps, and I hope you're doing okay.