#blane headcanons

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- You and Blane share your first kiss early on in your relationship and it’s probably by your own volition that it happens. Blane is sort of shy and he really likes you so he doesn’t want to accidentally mess anything up; meaning that he tends to wait for you to make the first move.

- Because of this, it’s up to you to decide when you want your relationship to become more serious …which is sort of comforting in a way. If you aren’t in his usual social circle than it gives you just a little bit more reassurance that he genuinely likes you and isn’t just slumming it with the poor for a night, hoping to get laid. 

- Regardless, your first kiss happens after your first or second date. You’re both leaning against his car, either parked outside of your house or in whatever area you’d wound up in for your date, and you’re talking a bit before you have to head inside/head home. 

- It’s pretty late so the sky is splattered with bright stars and the moon is gleaming off of his polished hood and you’re just thinking about how crazy it is that you’re there sitting there …with him of all people. 

- Finally, he kicks off his car and he mentions how he should probably let you get back home before your parents throw a fit and you laugh and agree. 

- As you’re getting ready to go, he says your name and you turn to look at him, waiting for him to say something. He gives you a small smile and tells you that he just wanted to say that he had a great time and that he was hoping that you’d maybe want to do it again. 

- And in that moment you just can’t help yourself, you walk forward and press your lips to his. He immediately responds, his lips moving against yours and his hands traveling to hold your face as your own hands move to hold him back. 

- The kiss is fervent and deep and you can feel how much he’s wanted to kiss you in the way his lips move against your own and the way his hands and arms pull you closer. 

- It lasts for a long time and when you pull away; slowly, and you’re both unsure of what to say. Finally, the two of you just share a smile and he nods to his car and tells you to come on or you say goodnight and begin to walk up to your front door. 

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- Most of the time, when a new couple; particularly a high school couple, has their first fight, it’s over something relatively stupid. That won’t be the case with you and Blane.

- Because of the way your school tends to behave, unless you can immediately, or already do, fit into his clique perfectly, you’re going to face a whole lot of backlash when it comes to the two of you dating. Because of this, your first fight is likely going to be about your social statuses and the future of your relationship; particularly how he’s going to treat you in the future of your relationship. 

- Blane generally tries to avoid issues. He isn’t good at fighting, especially when he himself is conflicted; which he will be in this scenario, so don’t be surprised if, when a problem arises, he chooses to run and hide instead of trying to face it. 

- What he tends to forget is that ignoring an issue until it hopefully goes away only ever really makes things worse. 

- You’ll most likely have to approach him yourself if you want to, or need to, sort things out. Although, regardless of how adamant you are that there is something wrong, he’ll still try to deny that there’s a problem or insist that you don’t understand what's going on. 

- He’ll try to keep his composure as best as he can, pretending that he’s perfectly fine or as though you haven’t completely caught him off guard, but he isn’t very convincing. You can’t tell exactly what he was expecting but it wasn’t a confrontation and you’re sure of that. 

- On the off chance that he’s the one to confront you, he’ll try to keep his calm but will come up and ask if he can talk to you as though he’s been working up the nerve to ask that question all morning. 

- Most of the time he sort of just waits until he explodes. He’ll suffer in silence for a while before it just becomes too much and he can’t help but break out into a somewhat nervous, rambling rant. 

- But, regardless, when it comes to your first fight, you’re going to be the one to confront him and chances are, you’ll get nowhere. He’ll keep denying whatever you’re saying, you’ll continue to get more and more upset, and soon enough you’ll just storm off with him calling after you. 

- After that, you’re left in this limbo of being broken up but not technically broken up, and the two of you wanting to be together but everyone else wanting you apart.

- It’s confusing and both of you aren’t sure of what to do. This entire scenario has only proven how much he wants to be with you so the thought of how much he’s ruined things really torments him. He winds up having to hold back his tears in the middle of the hallway.

- Like the intelligent young woman you are, you decide that you can’t be with someone who can’t happily be seen with you at any given time so as much as it hurts you, you try your best to just ignore him after that. 

- Meanwhile, he finds himself pretty much unable to stop thinking about and looking at you. He’s really worried that he’s screwed things up for good and he’s just praying that you’ll let him make things up to you. 

- After a few days of him contemplating what to do, he tries to give you a few calls before driving over to your house late one night (or showing up to wherever else he knows you’ll be). 

- Once you open the door, he struggles to find the right words to say. He finally manages to open his mouth and say hello before he asks if the two of you can talk. 

- Given the fact that he’s just driven across town and that, deep down, you still really care about him, you finally agree and either join him outside or take him inside your room so that the two of you can talk.

- He explains what happened and tells you that he loves you before saying that he understands if you don’t want to talk to him again. From the way that he says it, you can tell that he really means it and that's what pushes you to forgive him more than anything: the fact that he just wants you to be happy; even if it makes him miserable. 

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(Apologies for no post yesterday. My internet went haywire and would barely let me log on to tumblr let alone post or save any of my writing.)

- Blane only really has sex with people that he’s in a relationship with. He’s not a fan of having sex just to have sex so; while there’s probably a ton girls in your school who want to sleep with him, he’s still got a relatively low “body count”. 

- Because of this, he’s still got an inkling of inexperience; particularly when it comes to making the first move; since his partners were probably almost always the ones to initiate things. 

- He doesn’t want to pressure you into anything and he doesn’t want to try to move things to the next level too soon and make you uncomfortable or come to this awkward moment where you have to stop him so it’s sort of up to you to let him know that you’re ready and that you want to do it with him.  

- How you’ll do that depends on the type of person you are. You might sit him down and flat out tell him, or you’ll drop hints, or you’ll start to undress as the two of you make out. Either way, when you do, he’ll ask if you’re sure before he smiles and starts to kiss you again, beginning to undress himself as you do the same. 

- Since it’s your choice, you’ll obviously get to decide where it happens so you might be at one of your houses in a comfortable bed or you’ll wind up in some spontaneous area, awkwardly trying to maneuver yourselves. 

- Blane takes things sort of slowly. He isn’t trying to rush into anything so the two of you start out just kissing, touching and undressing each other; all with an edge of hesitant fervency. 

- His lips actually rarely leave yours. No matter what you’re doing, he’ll almost always be kissing you, both because he wants to and because it helps calm his nerves. 

- For your first time I think the two of you would skip oral and save it for the next time you’re together; especially if you’re doing things in a more spontaneous fashion since you might not have a lot of time or space. 

- He’d fumble around in his wallet or glove compartment for a condom, probably amusedly struggling to find one the entire time. You’d both probably end up laughing a little and he’d apologize, taking his time a little more and finally finding one. 

- Before he does anything more, he’d ask if you’re sure, kissing you softly once you assure him that you are. 

- The two of you would share a quiet moment as he’d slowly push into you and he’d pause as he bottomed out, his body pressed close against yours and your hands digging into his shoulders. 

- Once again: key word here is slow. He takes his time thrusting into you, his hips moving deliberately, his hands squeezing your thighs and sides. He’d love to feel your own hands in his hair or the back of his neck and your thighs squeezing his waist. 

- He’d speed things up again as the two of you neared your edge, his hand traveling between your bodies to touch you as his lips moved against yours. 

- And just like that you’d be thrown over the edge with him following not long after, letting out a moan as his forehead fell to press against yours and your nails dug into the skin of his back. 

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- Spending time with you; regardless of what the two of you are doing, is top priority for Blane so he never really minds doing things that some may consider boring; himself included. 

- Blane isn’t a huge fan of studying but he’s happy to help whenever you need him to. He might not be a genius but he gets decent grades and is terribly clever so he can teach you a thing or two every now and again. 

- And on that note: none of his friends ever really study or are willing to sit and help him so he finds it really nice that he can go to you whenever he’s having trouble. 

- He’s definitely more of a helping you memorize things sort of study buddy rather than a tutor. Like, he can try to teach you something but he’s much better at just reading from a paper and letting you know if you got something wrong; it’s less stressful for him too. 

- He’s probably tried explaining something or doing a math problem with you and just got it completely wrong. Then he just stood there looking embarrassed and furrowing his eyebrows at the equation, telling you that he “doesn't think he’s very good at this”, prompting you both to start laughing. 

- I’m pretty sure that Blane’s an only child, and he’s obviously got a big house, so if you want a quiet place to study; one where no ones gonna bother you, he’s got you covered. 

- And, as opposed to many houses in the 1980s, his house has it’s very own computer! So, rather than sitting in the school library and praying that nothing goes wrong, you can sit in the comfort of his home and type up that paper you have to finish; with a boyfriend on hand to help with any technological problems. 

- His notes are pretty average so yours are probably either significantly better or significantly worse than his. He’s also pretty used to Steff and some of his other friends bumming notes or papers off of him so he doesn’t mind you; his girlfriend, doing it. 

- Speaking of notes, Blanes pretty popular so he can almost always get a copy of whatever papers the two of you may need. 

- Most of your study sessions are going to be light; for lack of a better word. He doesn’t take things terribly seriously and neither do you so the two of you try to have a little fun while you’re together.

- He doesn’t like just sitting in silence for a whole afternoon so he’ll usually make a comment every now and again, maybe making a joke or starting a short conversation to try and break up the monotony of shuffling through papers. 

- When you’re distracted, he tends to sneak glances at you or doodle things on his paper; sometimes doodling you if he’s got a good view of you. You’ll catch him repeatedly looking at you and you’ll ask him “what are you doing”, watching as he smiles and shakes his head, insisting that its nothing while he continues to draw or write. 

- If he’s really not into something, he’ll try to get you out of working and say things like “hey, why don’t we take a break?”, oftentimes in the middle of you explaining or saying something. Because of this, he usually winds up apologizing while laughing a bit awkwardly, telling you that his head is spinning or something similar. 

- When it comes to actually studying or him teaching you something, your best bet is with math or, as I said before, something he can just help you remember. His best subject is math so; even though he’s not guaranteed to know everything, he at least has a pretty good grasp of it. 

- He says things like “Yeah, I know it’s stupid” whenever you don’t understand something, trying to make it seem like you’re not alone; even though he usually doesn’t or didn’t have a problem with it himself. 

- He also likes telling you that you’re gonna do fine whenever you groan and say you’re gonna fail, redirecting your concentration to whatever it is you’re doing and trying to find a better way to explain it. 

- As we all know, study dates don’t always turn out to be actual study dates so I should probably mention that Blane really doesn’t care either way. If you didn’t actually want to study, he doesn't mind, and if you actually did, he doesn’t mind either. 

- He’s sort of clueless when it comes to your ulterior motives. He’s never going to suspect that you were only using studying as an excuse to get him to come over or go to his house. He’ll always just legitimately think you needed help studying. 

- That being said, he gets all bashful and smiley whenever you come up and lean your chin on his shoulder or wrap your arms around him or kiss his neck or slide your hand onto his thigh or whatever other move you try to use on him.

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(These are a little shorter than usual but that’s just because I didn’t really have any kinks to talk about)

- Blane’s a popular guy. A lot of girls have thrown themselves at him so even though he’s less rambunctious and/or eager to get laid; not taking up every girl on their offer, he’s still got some experience when it comes to what goes on in the bedroom.

- If you’re sleeping with him, chances are you’re his girlfriend and he cares about you a lot. With that being said: he enjoys foreplay because it lets him take the time to explore your body and bask in that lovely heat that rises between the two of you.

- The question isn’t whether or not he likes getting head. The question is whether you can handle giving him head. I don’t even mean size-wise. Anytime you go down on him, he looks at you like you hung the moon, stroking your hair and whispering about how much he loves you. You never thought deep-throating someone could make you so emotional.

- Most boys aren’t all that eager to go down on a girl; especially when they’re in highschool, but Blane is. It’s almost like a kink for him. Sometimes, he’ll just want to eat you out, maybe getting himself off while doing it.

- He’s a dom but has submissive tendencies; if that makes sense. He likes being in control but he’s eager to please you and follow your orders.

- The two of you usually take things fairly slow. He doesn’t like to rush when he’s with you.

- He’s a sweetheart and it’s reflected in the way he acts with you, both in bed and out. He’s always soft with you, treating you gently and lovingly.

- He pulls you in close, stroking your face, holding your hands, peppering soft kisses across your skin. He’s smitten with you and it shows.

- Romance, intimacy, sensuality. He isn’t fond of that wham bam thank you ma’am type of mentality when it comes to sex. He likes for it to mean something and for the two of you to feel closer because of it.

- Atmosphere is important. He likes being completely alone, somewhere no one will disturb you. His bedroom, a deserted field late at night, a nice motel, etc.

- He’s sort of shy when it comes to sexual situations. He can’t help but let out a soft, embarrassed/nervous laugh when you praise him for something he does well or when you put the moves on him. Don’t get him wrong, he likes it; he just doesn’t know how to react.

- He’s pretty vanilla. Anything too out of the ordinary makes him feel dirty in all the wrong ways. He doesn’t like the idea of hurting you either. At most, he’d maybe do some light choking or hair pulling, though it would be for your pleasure not his.

- Missionary position. Once again: he’s vanilla, so wacky poses aren’t really his thing. He prefers simple, easy positions that let him properly touch and see you.

- He’s average sized and prefers little to no hair on both him and his partners. In regards to you, he mainly doesn’t like hair because he likes going down on you so much so if you don’t want to shave everything off that’s fine, just shave “whats in the way” so to speak.

- He would gladly suffocate between your breasts. He’s really bad at hiding the fact that he’s obsessed with them.

- He’s extremely handsy. He can’t help but touch every inch of you when you’re together.

- He likes finishing inside of you, usually with a condom since he’s a good, safe boy. Either that or he’ll pull out and you’ll finish him off with your hand, your bodies pressed close against one anothers.

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- You meet Blane when Steff decides to aggressively hit on you. The two of them were supposed to hang out yet he was left standing by his car when Steff went to harass you.

- He was about to say something to stop him until you slapped Steff right across the face. Blane bit the inside of his cheek to stop himself from laughing but you’d managed to catch the quick ‘pmmf’ he wasn’t able to hide which prompted you to look over. 

- Flustered, you met his eye for a short moment before getting into your car and driving off. He watched as you went, asking Steff about you once he’d returned to his side. Of course his answer was filled with curses and Steff lying about and degrading you but Blane could easily see through it.

- The next day at school, you caught him staring at you in the hallway; you hurriedly looked away every time you noticed and tried your best to ignore it which you had to admit was quite difficult. You sort of just thought he was looking at you because you’d made a scene the day before and felt thoroughly embarrassed by his gaze. 

- Regardless, you began taking notice of the him as well and found yourself forming a little crush on him against what you thought was your better judgment.

- You usually hung out with a different clique than him so you’d never really interacted before. He didn’t know how to approach you but he figured his best bet was to sit where you and your friends would usually hang out and hope you showed up. He was quite pleased when you did, waving excitedly and motioning you over. 

- Before you could even think about going over to him, one of the popular girls came over and started talking to him. He tried to excuse himself politely but by the time he did you’d already left. You spent the rest of the day wondering if he really had been calling you over and he spent the rest of the day cursing himself. 

- This went on for a while before he finally just chased you down in front of the school. Once again, he didn't know how to approach you so he sort of just tried his best to casually call your name as he attempted to catch up with you. ....Except there was a loud crowd so you didn’t hear him, forcing him to chase you all the way to your car. 

- You were, of course, surprised to find Blane suddenly panting at your side like he’d just ran a marathon so you just stood awkwardly, waiting for him to catch his breath. 

- Once he’d gulped down some air, he shyly introduced himself, said he thought you were extremely beautiful and then asked you out. ...You turned him down. 

- Regardless of how attractive you thought he was, you couldn’t help but assume he was just like Steff. He awkwardly accepted your answer, albeit very dejectedly, and you went home to scream into your pillow. 

- Lucky for the both of you, he didn’t quite give up after that. He persisted and you finally agreed after you heard him defending you when some of his friends were bashing you. 

- To say he was shocked would be the understatement of the century. He flashed you a dazzling smile, excitedly pulling you into a hug before apologizing and promising it would be the best date of your life. Spoiler alert: it was. 

- On the weekend, he picked you up early and took you to several places: the amusement park, the zoo, the aquarium and finally to a nice diner. He paid for all of it no matter how many times you offered to buy something. 

- The night ended with him giving you a sweet kiss on your porch right before you said goodbye to each other. 

- The next day at school, you sort of expected him to semi-ignore you/want to keep your relationship on the down low for the sake of his reputation. Surprisingly enough, (to you at least) he met up with you in the hall, kissed your cheek, took your books and grabbed your hand, beginning a conversation as he walked you to class. 

- When you saw your friends they either excitedly asked for all of the details or gave you a lot of shit for your choice of man but you knew they meant well.

- Neither of you cared if your friends didn’t like it, you liked each other and you weren’t giving up anytime soon. 

- He’s always touching you in public one way or another, whether that be an arm around your waist or shoulder or holding your hand. He likes showing people that you’re together since most wouldn’t expect it. 

- Long kisses and warm hugs. 

- Lots of gifts. Don’t worry, it barely even dents his allowance. 

- He always lends you his coat when it gets cold or lays it down for you to sit on. 

- A lot of people have a lot to say about the two of you but you pay it no mind. He always stands up for you no matter who the person talking about you is and after a while no one dares say anything about you or your relationship, at least not in his presence. 

- If you think you’ve seen polite you haven't seen anything yet, especially when it has to do with your parents/relatives. He almost makes too good of an impression. 

- Always spending time together. This boy can not get enough of you. 

- He’ll just spontaneously come up to you and announce that he’s going to take you out after school. He plans dates in boring class. 

- Fighting is almost always over an insecurity one of you has. He’s always really calm during them, refusing to yell back which only infuriates you even more. Sometimes you leave and he cries and other times you’ll just break down and he’ll hug you. 

- You mutter that you’re still angry and he just shushes you and says that he knows. One of you sniffles out an apology after you calm down and everything's forgiven. 

- Most people think he has it all and that there’s no reason for him to be worried about anything but he’s actually pretty insecure. He wonders if you’d find it easier to just date someone else instead of taking shit from people for being with him. 

-  He doesn’t get jealous very often but when he does he tends to stay pretty levelheaded. He lets you finish whatever it is you’re doing and then just casually asks about the guy, relaxing pretty much as soon as you give him an explanation. 

- If he genuinely thinks you like someone other than him he tells you flat out that it’s okay if you want to leave him. It breaks your heart seeing how much he just wants you to be happy even if it isn’t with him. 

- You constantly reassure him that you love him and wouldn’t want anyone else and whenever you need it he does the same for you. 

- He honestly has the patience of a saint when it comes to you, you could never annoy him no matter how worked up you get. 

- He’s always so understanding when you’re upset. He always wants to be there for you but he hates seeing you cry, it breaks his heart. 

- He lives for cuddling. Oftentimes you’ll lay cuddled into his side with his arms wrapped around you, your head leaned against his shoulder. 

- If the two of you are sleeping in the same bed then just know you’re not getting out of there until the last possible minute. You’re boyfriend turns into an octopus in the morning.

-  He always wants to hold and kiss you. He would love to have your attention 24/7 if it were possible; you’re on his mind 90% of the time so it’s only fair, right?

- If you’re ever hanging out with people and trying to ask or say something he’ll get their attention for you and just give you a wink when you give him a grateful look. 

- He always supports you no matter what you’re doing. 

- Everything you do never ceases to amaze him. It could be the simplest, most mundane thing in the world and he’d still be blown away. 

- He can sometimes be forgetful and dismissive of your feelings but he’ll always apologize if he hurts you; he certainly never means to upset you. 

- He’ll always want to prolong your dates, asking if you can stay for just a little longer or trying to persuade you to try something else with him. 

- For your anniversary he got you an expensive charm bracelet and a bunch of little meaningful charms for you to put on it. Things like: both your initials and birthstones, a little fish/zoo animal for your first date, a little hand for the day you “met”, etc. 

- Opens doors for you, pulls out your chair, helps you over puddles; Blane is personally resuscitating chivalry. 

- He always manages to cheer you up and make you smile even when you really don’t want to. 

- Kisses in the dark. 

- Late night conversations. 

- He likes surprising you with a visit when you’re at work or whenever he’s in the neighborhood. 

- Teasing him. He gets adorably shy whenever you do. 

- Stealing his sunglasses. 

- Gentle cheek kisses. 

- Going shopping together. It doesn’t matter where you go, he just likes going with you. 

- Hanging out at the mall. 

- Ice cream dates. 

- Getting shown all his neat little computer tricks. 

- He tries his best to keep you away from Steff, he knows that he’ll just act like an ass either in front of you or when you’re gone. 

- Getting rides to and from school or wherever else you want to go, you can always persuade him to take you with a kiss.  

- Hiding out with him during his friends parties. 

- He loves the things that make you different, all your odd little quirks and interests. 

- You’re that “perfect” couple that people are envious of. You’re the couple that gets to sit back and watch other peoples relationship drama unfold in uncomfortable and flabbergasted silence. 

- He just utterly loves and absolutely adores you. He loves saying and hearing “I love you”.