So my advice from what my brother has been goi through is first when he came to me asking him to help him break up with Shamula Antos and he told me how bad she is before she had met our family, is well he shouldnāt had told me how bad she was treating him and how he wants help to breaking up with her and he back in 2015 if he felt this way is he shouldāve told her alone that he felt that she wasnāt treating him well and that it isnāt working out and how they should see other people. Next he shouldnāt had again gotten his drinking buddies involved by saying how bad Shamula was treating him and how he wants to break up with her. Also he never shouldāve been telling two different stories about her cause eventually she will find out through the grapevine that heās been saying how he wants to break up with her and he will go through a nasty divorce and a custody battle. since our family, his friends, and her family pretty much Peer pressured him into marrying her he shouldāve just came forward and told everyone that heās just not ready to get married yet and he doesnāt need to admit that he has a crush on another woman. Finally he should and just end all contact by text message and on Facebook messenger with Jamieās girlfriend cause it sounds like sheās not loyal to any guy but likes the attention. He should do a final message to Jamieās girlfriend by saying hi Iām sorry but I can no longer let you flirt with me and no longer speak to me or text me due to it could cause my relationship troubles and I hope you and I can just be friends.