What’s on my mind? I had an incredibly reductive convo with a potential suitor. I’m sure they thought they were being complimentary. Tell me if you’ve heard these before: - you look amazing, 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙖𝙜𝙚 - you’re very stylish, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙞𝙩 𝙨𝙚𝙚𝙢𝙨 𝙡𝙞𝙠𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪’𝙧𝙚 𝙩𝙧𝙮𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝙠𝙚𝙚𝙥 𝙪𝙥 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙢𝙞𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙣𝙣𝙞𝙖𝙡𝙨 - you’re really smart, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙢𝙚𝙣 𝙙𝙤𝙣’𝙩 𝙘𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 - it’s nice that you bring something to the table, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙝𝙤𝙬 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙡𝙞𝙡 𝙟𝙤𝙗 𝙤𝙛 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙚𝙧𝙛𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙩𝙖𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙘𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙢𝙖𝙣 - I’m sure you’ve got options, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪’𝙧𝙚 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙜𝙚𝙩𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖𝙣𝙮 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙣𝙜𝙚𝙧 Y’all?! 𝙏𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙖𝙞𝙣’𝙩 𝙞𝙩. Does this resonate with any of you? —— I’m not trying to look young. Not competing with anyone (Millennials, GenX or GenZ). Not performing to “keep a man”. The goal was and IS to always be Fly, Hip & Ageless #flyagelesscertified✅ And if someone (male or female) is hitting you up with backwards compliments which are trying to minimize your dopeness? Send them my way. Auntie keeps a spicy one-liner ready. #flyageless #blackgenx #genX #50plusandfabulous #blackgenerationx #over40 #over50 #grayhairdontcare #locs #licstyles #datingover40 #spicy (at Washington D.C.) https://www.instagram.com/l2lifestyler/p/CXRQcKvFmV8/?utm_medium=tumblr