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I've got feelings™️ about the concept that being AFAB makes you more likely to be bigoted in any particular way vs. AMAB people.
idk man I just don't think socialization theory becomes less bioessentialist and more Progressive And Transgender Friendly when you're insisting a baby vagina makes you more bigoted/racist/whiny instead of more helpless.
maybe people's personalities are not, in fact, determined by the presence of absence of a penis when they are born?? idk just a thought
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So it's been talked about a bit between people I know, but while there isn't an entire universal gender socialization experience, I do believe that there is specific kind of socialization that comes with being exposed to racism.
I think that afab white trans folks need to unlearn racism the same way white cis women do because the racism operates the same.
And this isn't saying that amab white trans people don't have to unlearn racism because yes, they do and I've had really terrible experiences with white trans women in real life due to racism, but I think there too much harm being done by acting like white afab trans folks racism is somehow less dangerous.
To me it's incredibly dangerous in the same way that cis white women's is, and there's an obvious connection there that we need to talk about. Universal gender isn't a thing, but you internalize racism differently depending on how you're perceived.
Re: your recent update with baeddellism links... I'm not sure I understand what point you're trying to make with some of those links. I get that one of those blogs has a title that's a baeddelism pun. Her url is also an autogynephelia pun, and idk that that makes her an autogynephelia-truther or w/e. The posts you linked from her were all about the unreasonable standards that trans women are held to. This doesn't look like criticizing harmful ideology to me?
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@/autogynamelia is a self-proclaimed baeddel. She's got it in her title here on Tumblr, and she's notorious for it over on Twitter:
She's defended her use of the word further here, stating that her original tweet (above) was "ironic (though tbh I'm no longer sure how ironic)" and that the original baeddels were "flawed", "under attack", and "onto something". She also only said it was ironic after a ton of backlash (from transmascs and transneutral folks as well as transfemmes), so I, personally, am not sure how seriously I can take that.
@/borntobaeddel1312 has a "#baeddel on main" tag where she openly and frequently espouses straight-up baeddel rhetoric, using the word to call it what it is. Don't think you could make an "it's ironic" claim for that one- particularly when I am fairly sure Jess was also one of the original baeddels back in 2014.
I generally don't care who people reblog from- it's only in conjunction with posts they've reblogged (or personally made) that do uphold baeddel ideology that it makes me genuinely suspicious.
Which is why I included links to posts where they'd claimed trans men have privilege over trans women, openly compared trans men to women and misgendered them, claimed that TERFs only harm trans women (use of "TWEF" instead of "TERF"), implied that trans men who speak to our experiences with transphobia are "TransMRAs", and implied that trans men cannot experience misogyny.
I know baeddel ideology is not well known; you can see examples and explanations of where their ideology ties into the above here and here.
Again, I'm not trying to accuse any of these people of being baeddels themselves. It's the endorsement and espousal of important facets of baeddel ideology that makes me suspicious, and should, imo, make people view their claims about transmascs with suspicion as well.
I'm not telling you to disregard everything they say based on this one thing. I'm encouraging folks to be critical, ask questions, and investigate claims themselves.
Like I have had the URL blackafemmetalks for less than a month now, and already this is my tag:
now lets look at witches-ofcolor:
And that’s not even all of it! That’s just some!
I have deleted and removed my content from his tag. But looking at mine you’d think I was a n@th@rses side blog. I am trying to separate myself from him, I am trying to talk about my own damn expereinces but for some reason he’s freaking obsessed and I’m tired.
idk it’s getting fucking weird. this is stalker-ish behavior.
I am actually in-love with Josephine Baker. Her gender presentation, her fluidity between femme and masc, her bisexuality. She embodies a lot of what I want to be.
She one of my favorite black women, and since it’s BHM I just wanted to share one of my favorite outfits by her.
Also, did you know she was a spy?
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