#bisexualjaeger

we’re gonna do the belgian student situation of student’s room in the week, home with parents in the weekend (Lilou sometimes at my family’s place, sometimes with her parents in France, sometimes in the studio for some #metime, prob)

the studio is rly pretty and quite big and well-furnished and well-situated with easy buses for my leg and we’re moving in in september and WE CAN’T WAIT!!!!! we’re already planning all our days and mentally adding the remaining furnishings (i’m spending way too much time on secondhand websites)

lilou is gonna do a post-graduate on dutch (yes!!! she’s gonna learn dutch!!!) and translation (interesting!!!! she loves!!!) and prob work on a doctorate proposal??? I’m gonna take interesting classes basically only on human rights and write my master’s thesis on the evolution of abusive requirements for gender recognition, which i’m v excited and motivated for bc i literally just got glowing feedback on my research plan for it

it’s gonna be such an amazing year i CANNOT WAIT

there were obv stressful and meh moments bc Big Decisions with non-negligible consequences which demand difficult conversations, outright communication and delicate compromise (which got my therapist’s stamp of approval for mature communication, trust, and working as us vs the problem), but we mostly did SO MANY AMAZE THINGS, including:

went to see Lana Del Rey in concert and sobbed copiously and gayly. Lilou burst into tears as soon as Lana appeared on the stage, I cried hysterically during Young And Beautiful. It was a fantastic concert, she was lovely on stage, picked great songs, and it was great to see the tiny changes she made to them, both musically and lyrically, in a shift towards Positivity TM

had A Bunch of great afternoon sex with the sun falling in through the windows

went to eat sushi and have a drink with my lovely lovely friends

a hella fun DND picnic in a park with @cal3ris, @degenezijde and @pasiphile

went to the yearly scouting meet-up party (Lilou made muffins)

went to eat asparagus in a fance restaurant with my extended family (that’s twelve ppl :p) for our yearly family restaurant outing

visited ghent in the RADIANT SUN with Lilou’s friend who was here for a conference and every time i visit ghent, esp when the weather is nice, i fall in love with this city all over again. it involved beautiful buildings and sights, nice food, happy people, and history nerdery, which are my fave things tbh

Lilou wore a gorgeous dress that makes me stare at her boobs all night TWICE (rude but also fantastic)

studying together side by side

Lilou went with me to my medical appointments which made them a lot more bearable

fantastic four hour sex date, after which we went to eat mcdonalds and traipse around in the shopping streets and bought too many fandom pajamas at primark

valentines date with a robot exhibit where i died of cute bc Lilou was being beyond adorable about all the robots and robot info, followed by exchanging valentines prezzies at the hipster chocolate-café-cum-used-bookstore (where a dude from my classes works and he’s always so befuddled about why I clearly speak Dutch and Lilou doesn’t) and Lilou liked her prezzies which made me v happy and proud and her prezzies to me where so good and attentive and sweet!!! and then evening with @pasiphile, @degenezijde, and @cal3ris on Skype to plan a dnd campaign

we went to a Typical TM Flemish small town carnival and reaped a lot of candy and laughed a lot, and then spent the rest of the afternoon and evening making fimo jewellery while listening to taz (and the first episode of @damesanddragons which i’d obv already listened to but i’d recommended them to Lilou as her next dnd podcast) and we laughed a lot at the podcasts and made pretty jewellery (esp Lilou!!! So pretty!!!!) and I was so happy that she had fun doing it ^^

AHHHHH Lilou is here and I showed her this message and we both went :3

Ye, Lilou bought the macarons in an indoor market in Shoreditch, bc she knew I liked them and was trying to SEDUCE ME (well, I was already seduced, bc that was after Keats House and @pasiphile was already there but MORE SEDUCE) and then there were some left when we met up with Derek who made a salacious joke about it and it was fun.

And the Keats house! Where we kept “losing” you and @myfavoritedemons and we “lost” you in the basement where we pretended to be watching the explanatory film which said the exact same thing as our guide had and instead we KISSED! Like NERDS! (It was so nerd, me excitedly kissing Lilou’s cheek and Lilou just like. gradually turning her head until I was kissing her mouth. The most nerd.) And then we got worried you’d get worried about us so we came to look for you and you were trying on top hats like EVEN BIGGER NERDS. I swear.

And then there was that magnet board where you could make sentences with magnetic words and Lilou and I giggled like smitten nerds over the “kiss” magnet and pushed it around between us and then in Camden we stole kissies in between the steampunk corsets and Andrew, in all his renown American subtlety, took us to the basement of the Cyberdog with ALL THE LATEX AND NEON SEX TOYS. Which are still not my style, sorry Andrew. 

And then coming home and chatting with Pasi and we told them “we’re claiming the living room” and Pasi like 👀👀👀