#bio spawn

Hi! <3

First off, here’s what NOT to do.

Never try to educate ignorant bio spawn, their ignorance is their own failing and their responsibility. Never be made to feel that it’s your job to educate them.

As for what to do:

Have fun at the expense of silly, uneducated opinions. Turn their ridiculous questions back on them “why are YOUR parents white?” “how did it feel when you came out of your parent’s genitals?” “why did your parents choose to breed yet another life into this world of rapidly dwindling resources?” and be all sweet and innocent once the bio spawn get flustered :) Also feel free to their colorblind racist nonsense against them, “oh, I don’t see race” and all that jazz.

Keep in touch!

We post very regularly about the child trafficking, racism, cultural genocide, and abuse (often sexualized abuse) in the adoption industry, and how it exploits countries recovering from imperialism and war.

For you to reduce and attribute all of this systemic violence to “frustrated/angry” adoptees is so racist, classist, and ableist, it’s clear you’re unfit to be an adoptive parent.

It’s so gross and oppressive of you to come into a space clearly dedicated to supporting adoptees and foster care survivors and exposing the massive adversity we face, and use OUR time and effort just so YOU can feel better about acquiring a child through a system that’s proven to be corrupt.

You have some very disturbing entitlement issues to children born from marginalized backgrounds and cultures. We will not honor your request to publish privately. Now go away and leave us alone.

stop thinking just bc you’re not white means you somehow know what its like to lose your birth family then survive the adoption foster system and somehow come out whole

being black does not equal being adopted. how does this escape ppl. stop this shit rn. its disgusting arrogant and deeply disappointing.

replied to your post

“uhh.... your comprehension isn't up to parr either. the second part of...”

Transracial adoptees like myself must not exist then. I am a ghost. And I will haunt the fuck out of you. Geez they didnt even read did they

HAH!

“We are a global network of internationally and domestically adopted orphans and foster care survivors.”

^What it says right on our Tumblr.

Reading comprehension: you’re doing it wrong.

Also, I was adopted from Ethiopia into a white western family.

Pray tell, bio spawn… explain more to me about my own lived experience, along with this racism that I’ve “never endured.“