#bi validation

[ID: A screencap of two Tumblr posts; the top is a reblogged post reading, “ it’s okay when you’re bi and don’t feel like you like different genders equally. it’s okay when you’re bi and have a preference. it’s okay when you’re bi and like different genders for different reasons. it’s okay when you’re bi and your attraction isn’t 50/50 for everything. you’re not broken, and aren’t a “fake bisexual” because you don’t fit into the stereotype. it’s okay.” Below it is an ad for a strange chair that seems to unfold into different configurations so that the very restless model in the ad can sit on it in whatever weird way they like, including lying on their front while reading a book and sitting on some kind of raised part with their feet on a lower level of the chair. The text at the top reads, ‘Ten+ ways you can sit’ with more text at the bottom reading, ‘How to fidget yet stay focused’. /end ID]

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Happy Bi Visibility to all of my gorgeous teen Bi gals from one to another! So here’s some Bi WLW positivity!

Y’all are wonderful! You are not “just going through a phase” or “just can’t pick a side” and your attractions isn’t for attention!

Bi girls with a preference towards guys? VALID. Having a preference towards the opposite gender doesn’t make you straight, you’re still Bi! Don’t let anyone say that you’re just attention seeking for that!

Bi girls with a preference towards girls? AMAZING. Leaning more towards the same gender doesn’t make you gay/lesbian! You’re still Bi, don’t let anyone try to put you down for it!

Bi girls who don’t have a preference? SPECTACULAR. Not having a preference or feeling the same attraction to the genders your attracted to doesn’t invalidate your experience as a Bi person, and it doesn’t mean your perpetuating a stereotype!

Bi girls who are only attracted to non-bianry peeps and girls? STUNNING. Only liking two genders and only one of them being binary doesn’t affect the fact that your attraction is still whole and wonderful! Remember that only you get to choose how you label yourself, and you know yourself best!

Bi girls who are only attracted to girls and boys? LOVED. You aren’t being transphobic! You can’t dictacte your attraction. Not being able to see yourself in a relationship with a non-binary person/not being attracted to a non-binary person isn’t “enbyphobic”, don’t let anyone else tell you otherwise!

you are valid and loved even if you:

- aren't out

- haven't dated anyone

- are out of the closet

- aren't supported by your family

- are questioning

just know: you are a valid bisexual and deserve love and respect. have fun celebrating!! 💖💜💙