#bgty

I got a dm today, in it a person who wishes to remain anonymous called me stupid. My first reaction was to question myself and then I remembered all of the years of being held captive to others opinions of me. Even to the point of my own detriment did I try to be everyone’s friend! Where did that get me? Absolutely no where AND miserable. Baby, whoever you are I thank you for sharing your unsolicited opinion of me! It reminded me of how far I have come. You are entitled to your opinion and I have the right to accept it and wear it like a big heavy cape OR I can reject it and continue to be kind to myself knowing that I am not deliberately doing stupid stuff to hurt others like you are. #💪🏽 #heal #loveyourself #bgty #imalligot #iloveme https://www.instagram.com/p/Bw2g-HOAJZC/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=pimf2yqv359k

#insta #better #loveyourself #bgty https://www.instagram.com/p/BwhbO12Hxn7/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=xjh84ak8mnik

I just keyboard smashed with my face into the Google search bar and it searched "bgty" which I thought was nonsense but apparently it means "be good to yourself" and I think the universe is sending me a gentle reminder, so I'm sending the gentle reminder to all of you as well

Take it a day at a time. Even moment by moment if you have to. Do the best you can with what you have and strive for better with everything. #motivateyourself #bgty #innerstrength #todaysproblems #tomorrowsproblems #focusontoday