#beingavirgin

Why is being a virgin such a horrible thing?

So I just went on a date with someone and it went great. I had good vibes from him because of his sense of humor, how approachable and easy to talk to he was, and this suave gentleness he had about him. A second date was totally in the horizon. But then the magic disappeared instantly when I told him later that week that I was a virgin. He replied "lol for reals" and he even tried talking me out of it before saying bye-bye. I couldn't believe it. That the fact that I hadn't had sex before was the deal breaker. I'm on okc so I moved on and started talking to other people. I decided to make my non-sex life a point on my profile and the guys messaging me couldn't believe that I was serious. It's blown me away how important sex is to people. I already knew my stance was a minority but damn. It's been a discouraging week to say the least but I've been true to my values. I wonder if this is always going to be viewed as a "problem" or a situation so outrageous that they can't be with me. A couple of the guys who messaged me even told me that the odds of finding a guy who would be that patient was pretty much no one. They made it seem even unnatural...