when i have children
when i have kids i will let them be themselfs, they will be alowed to do what ever they want with their hair except dye it a crazy color or for my girls to like shave their head, ill make sure to let them have their own style but they must follow the modestly expectations of my church, with this though by the time they are like 15 or 16 i will let them decided if they want to go to church....in our church were babtized at the age of 8 and little 8 year olds just want to make their parents happy so they get babtized. I dont want my teens to feel forced to go to church i want them to feel like its a choice that they can make. even though i am against gay marriage if my kid comes home one day and says hey im gay, id be all cool i want meet your boy friend/girlfriend. i will still love them no matter what. i remember when i was little....even like 4 years old when we were buying clothes for me my mom always asked me if i liked it. basically im going to embrace my kids for who they are what they are and what they want to be i will still love them no matter what.
