hi its not rals but thought id give updates in tags. he does hope you all are staying safe tho 🫶
also if this wanders into fandom spaces somehow: im talking about our fictive (headmate/alter/whatever) we are Plural we are not a rp blog. okok bye fr now
#gonna add#lonely prince tag#because Stuff#so like uhh. hes not doing good at all#hes so happy for tfem versions of his source but also every post we see about it gives him immense dysphoria#and its like. we arent making it anyones problem. we are never gonna bash on someone for this thing thats making thousands of ppl happy#but also the fear of it being canom later is getting 2 him. bc itd narriatively make sense. but like. u know. our fictive ral is TransMasc#so its. a predicament. hes fine w the they/them prns like he goes by he/they internally#self described he/they princess thats fine with fem compliments but is ultimately a boy#but like . i dont know how to describe this for him. he loves amd appreciates everything going on bc its making *so* many ppl happy#but also. its hard seperating yourself from art showing **what you look like internally**#and like hes working on it. this isnt anyones problem but our own. in fact a few other members of our system-#-think that transfem ralsei is really good and adopted it as their own personal hc. we just dont rlly talk about it around him#for obv reasons. anyways. i think hes also afraid to come across as transphobic when thats not what hes trying to say#its more of looking in something that feels like a mirror and everyone saying “she” to refer to the depiction#once again: we have never and WILL never ever bash or confront or challenge anyone on this. we block tags and move on. but-#-a lot of it is untagged because its just the “accepted truth” about canon ralsei. and they may be correct. and that is fine#but we may have to deal with that. and should we post art about our he/they fictive when the canon says eventually-#-that ralsei is a she/they tfem icon we Will hve to use they/them which is ok. again. we arnt gonna go out of our way to do some bs like tht#idk. just rambling now. gonna go back and add a clarification that im talking about a fictive (headmate alter watever) and not th character
