Examples of things that are okay to shame people out of: - Being mean or violent - Making jokes on the expense of others - Littering Effect: Makes people understand that doing these things is not okay because the impact is always negative, resulting in a nicer world for everyone
Examples of things that are not okay to shame people out of: - Enjoying a benign hobby - Liking a certain style of clothing/jewelry/hair/whatever - Having a different behavior system Effect: Makes people suppress who they are despite these things having literally no impact on anything or anyone else, resulting in shit like anxiety, isolation, self-loathing, depression, RSD and physical illness due to the stress of constantly trying to make other people comfortable with their existence
Examples of things that are not okay to shame people into: - Losing weight - Using makeup - Buy things / do things / go places they don’t want or need to Effect: Makes people feel bad about themselves regardless if you’re successful or not with shaming them into doing these things, resulting in shit like anxiety, isolation, self-loathing, depression, eating disorders, RSD and physical illness due to the stress of constantly trying to make other people comfortable with their existence
