#basikusa

For the ask game can I ask placecards for Bsaikusa

And/or love letter for basihigu

(Feel free to swap them around or answer for a different selfship!)

Happy belayed Valentine's! Ი︵𐑼

placecards — what is your favorite way of addressing your f/o, and what are theirs? do you use pet names or do you make up entirely new nicknames for each other?

Atsuya likes cutesy pet names, like bunny, what irritated me at first but I've grown to find it endearing - especially since he's not a man who shows affection openly and often. I usually just use his name but I like to slip a sly little "Kusakabe-san" to pull the right kinky strings 🤭

love letter — in the early stages of your relationship, who was the first to confess, and how did that go?

Hiromi, and almost straight away. He developed feelings pretty fast and didn't want to beat around the bush (he clicked me fast too lmao you really gotta be direct with me). He got rejected straight away, too. But my answer wasn't definitive enough to discourage him (again, I was clocked fast as skittish and self-conscious) so he patiently worked for a better ground for his second chance.

I saw the ask game you rb! You can answer with a selfship you are comfortable sharing answers for ☺️

section one - praline

section two - bourbon

section three - painting the town red

Hello! Thank you! Ი︵𐑼

Praline answered here.

bourbon — time to put the rose-colored glasses on for a bit, what is the one 'flaw' or acquired taste trait of your f/o that you secretly love and find irresistible?

Oh, it's the 'shaming' time *rubs hands*.

Atsuya's complaining feels really like at home, to the point I don't even realize when he does it in a bad faith, instead of airing stuff out like in the good old Polish way. I find it kind of endearing and sometimes chime in, sometimes only to find out he really didn't want to do the thing he was complaining about 😂

I don't even consider this a flaw but Kento dislikes the moments when he's losing control, especially around food - which I find adorable especially because he's collected almost 24/7 and then I find a new hot pot place and he's visibly shaking whenever I bring this up because he wants to already be there and try it out.

This one will get tomatoes flying at me but. Hiromi just gets ten times more sexy when he's tired 😭And I should not encourage his workaholism nor admire how stubborn and dedicated to his cases he is but nothing gets this man looking fine like an all-nighter...

I don't know how to make a moodboard so unfortunately I have to skip the 3rd section prompt 😭

Thank you! Ი︵𐑼

praline — do you and your f/o share similar love languages or are they entirely different? how does the similarity/difference manifest in your relationship dynamic?

It's somewhat similar, thank heavens, because I'm not the best at communication when someone isn't on exactly the same wavelength. It's quality time through and through, sprinkled with gifts that I still learn to accept.

The biggest dissonance is with Hiromi 'cause he's also leaning towards touch and words, and I'm just a skittish, individualistic cat who maybe likes praise, but comes closer only when he wants to - and under very particular circumstances. Let's say that the tuning is in progress 😂

okay, enough with this sex discourse, time to do something more suitable for this blog

Thank you for the ask!

6. go clothes shopping with, go to ikea with, go grocery shopping with

Hm. I feel out of those three Atsuya is the one who actually knows how to dress himself and others well, so I could somehow suffer through clothes shopping if he was around. Maybe he would know where someone of my size can find something decent 😂

Grocery shopping go to Kento because he would NOT be an enabler and actually pay attention to what I'm trying to sneak into basket. I really need to put a harsher ban on soda and chocolate bars, they are good for a quick energy boost for my little brain, but they are not good for my health, f. Being foodie for foodie, that could be a fun experience too just for the sake of thinking of recipes to try later at home?