#backhandedcompliment

Mom, arriving home after 2 days in North Carolina: "Hi Lucy! Look at you! Did you wash your face? You look so nice! Normally you look like shit." You see the abuse I endure?! 🙀😾 #fluffypantsdaily #backhandedcompliment #meanmommy #eyeboogers #persianproblems #persiancatproblems #cat #persian #himalayan #catsofinstagram #catsoftumblr #catstagram #catlady

dude if you were in that show, you would win 100k. because let me tell you when we were together, we went months without sex lol. i have faith in you, you manipulator.

Man on train says he like my shoes. Man says his daughter would like my shoes. I tell man who the designer is (Bertie). ‘Oh’. Mans daughter is 2 years old. #backhandedcompliment? https://www.instagram.com/p/B1BDaxqAbxf/?igshid=1dzflkp1u64h8

Storytime: I'm sitting at a bar in the airport when the woman next to me starts to casually speak. We talk about a myriad of things, which I was cool with until she got comfortable. The comment made me feel some type of way and initiated this post. She made a comment about black women. Her statement was offensive. My intent for this post is to inform and tell non-WOC that it's not okay to say these things to anyone much less a black woman. __ Her: I was telling my brother, the only man in our family that dates black women, how beautiful the black women are here (DMV). Me: Oh Yeah (Thinking she does realize that I am a black woman) Her: I was surprised to see so many beautiful black women. Me: Face scrunches up __ Do you see how this is offensive? She gave a backhanded compliment. I quickly stopped talking to her and continued to drink my wine. I'm certain my facial expression said it all. We must do better. I know we believe in freedom of speech, but there is a fine line between speaking your mind and being rude. She's lucky I was in an amazing mood and didn't have time for her antics. #somethingsabouther #lessonlearned #blackwomenarebeautiful #backhandedcompliment #notokay #blackqueen👑 #blackgirlmagic✨ #meditatewithme (at Regan Intl Airport - DCA) https://www.instagram.com/somethingsabouther/p/BvcckvQlncV/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1lxq0veulm3pk

Someone gave me a compliment and said My Doppelganger should be Tate Donovan. I think it has everything to do with our names and the OC, versus how we look 😆. # doppelganger #tatedonovan #theoc #taterintheoc #backhandedcompliment #funny #humor😂 #TV #instadaily #instagramhub #instagood (at Irvine, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bo9rphkAN3Y/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=68hz3o259q71

Ummm...ok?!? #BackhandedCompliment #CarrotApp (at Provincetown, Massachusetts) https://www.instagram.com/p/BnzMcEeFl2-/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=fr4xm0w1u1ta

I have an ugly attitude... why do strangers think they know me better than me? Will I wake up tomorrow to some more bull shit. Perhaps someone trying to sell cam shows to a cam girl with pics stolen from another cam girl? Maybe another imposter profile? More idiots telling me how I should look or be cause ya know surviving all the bullshit I’ve been through means totally do that. Abuse survivors love being told how they should look feel and act... Shit like this makes me not even wanna get on social media but I brave the bs because there’s ppl I give a shit about on here who somehow don’t do this shit. If I’m incompatible with you instead of trying to change me leave. Find some meek mouse to blindly agree with you. Or someone who doesn’t have #triggers or hasn’t been through shit. I’m me unapologetically until the day I die. I’ve spent enough of my life wading through shit. I barely got my damn life back and I still have things to cover, loss and suffering... so until you walk in my shoes just stop... if you lack empathy we ain’t gonna get along. #boundaries #boundariesareattitude #backhandedcompliment #reallynigga #ugh #uglyattitude #whatever #blocked #toooldforthisshit https://www.instagram.com/p/BnfmbNNg0z-/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1k5cjg7yjc1xi

"Backhanded Compliments" #2016 to #2018 #printmaking #NativeBornBlack #lithography #lithograph #fineart #printlife #backhandedcompliment #fun #black #ink #graphite #blue #yellow