#babey posts

And a friendly reminder that if I do reblog from people marked as red, double check to see if they are an innocent person, instead of assuming people are reblogging from bigots.

I see this happen more and more. Towards multigender people, towards trans men, towards intersex people, etc. It keeps happening. So look out for your community, and think about whether or not you want to keep this extension. It clearly is made by really biased people, and directs harm towards innocents.

Fuck it, be baby sometimes. Who care. Complex adult thought is silly sometimes.

Like simple statement okay. No need for essay unless you got da bills to pay. Y'know what I mean.

Some do. Some want to erase the people they were before, and not everyone does, and not everyone can.

Not all trans men or trans mascs are automatically removed from the female spaces they once occupied, and many of them are still perceived as women. Not to mention, this is for only binary transmascs or trans men. Many are multigender, many are not afab, many are intersex, many are many different things. It's not always ftm and it's not always that the "female" part of them no longer exists.

So acting like they are "men inserting themselves" into female spaces is woefully stupid and unrealistic. Being a gender is not some cool club like boys only tree houses and basketball teams. Misogyny as a whole doesn't just happen to one group of people, it's systemic and happens to everyone. Transphobia is the same. Intersectionality isn't a threat.

So next time you act like people aren't allowed to speak about their very real experiences, next time you assume people just want to erase their pasts the same way you do to become a part of some bougie club, understand your own biases against those people and keep your mouth shut.

Keep using trigger warnings, they help and they do work. But just because you have an issue with them, doesn't mean it's the same for everybody. So curate yourself, don't use trigger warnings if you don't want to, but don't remove them from people who DO need them.

So please share your experiences and feelings in regards to feeling like you need to just "get better" but can't or have hit so many roadblocks that you're miles away from where others are at.