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Hey Dean. My Names Avery Alexander. Do you like that? I think it fits. But anyway, I want to come out publicly as genderfluid, even though I mostly identify as male. Do you have any tips on how I could go about that? Thank you so much! - Avery.
Hey Avery Alexander, it’s Dean here.
I really like the name, and I think it’s very fitting! I just want to congratulate you- you are such a badass for finding your own identity and wanting to share it with others. I know it must have been a tough journey, but you’re doing so well and I am so proud of you!
It’s awesome that you want to come out publicly. I would start with coming out to close family members and friends- sit them down, have a casual conversation when you all aren’t busy. They may be surprised, they may as questions- but true family and friends will accept you for who you are, even if they are a little shocked at first. Once you are able to tell your loved ones, if you feel comfortable you can begin telling other people. If you feel comfortable, post a status update on Facebook or Twitter, but if you don’t, that’s fine too! It’s 100% your call on who you want to tell and how you want to tell them. I promise you that true friends and loved ones will be happy for you in finding yourself, and will be more than willing to accept you as genderfluid.
Here’s the part that kind of sucks- some people around you aren’t going to be as accepting as others. It’s so frustrating that gender is shamed and not accepted- you have to remember that those people who don’t accept you are ignorant, and that true friends and family will accept you for who you are. While you can try to educate people, some just aren’t going to learn- and you have to remind yourself that those people aren’t worth your trouble. I know that so many people are going to accept you and love you for who you are, and you have to remember that being genderfluid is something to be proud of. Embrace yourself, even if others don’t.
It can be casual- bring it up in a conversation, in the car, at the dinner table. Telling other people is an amazing thing, and you do not have to hide it! If someone does not accept you, that’s their fault, and their loss.
Avery, I am so proud of you for taking this step. I want you to check back in and let me know how it goes, alright? Be brave- telling others is worth it, because you won’t have to hide your true self anymore.
Dean