#austinabout

“Korean dad and Chinese mom. Which means I had a very fun childhood.”

D - Dominance (do they prefer to dominate, or be dominated? do they have experience as a Dom? Do they have a Dom that they trust already? What kind of things do they enjoy as/with their Dominant partner?) 

“Little bit of both. Balance is good, y’know?” He considers himself a switch but in actuality he’s a total suuuuuuub.

A - Alone time (how do they get off when they’re all by themselves? do they watch porn, is it all in their imagination, do they jerk off, do they use toys?) 

(answered)

M - Masochism (do they like pain? scratching? biting? being bossed around? spoken down to? choked?) 

“... yes.”

N - Not yet (orgasm delay? orgasm denial? do they tell their partner not to touch themselves for a certain amount of time or under certain circumstances? do they delay or deny other things like bathroom usage or food? do they need to beg first? do they like being denied / delayed?) 

A - Alone time (how do they get off when they’re all by themselves? do they watch porn, is it all in their imagination, do they jerk off, do they use toys?)

“Call me lame but I love a little bit of self-love, if you know what I mean. Nothing beats a lazy Sunday morning with a bit of hot porn on the laptop screen...”

K - Kissing (what parts of their body do they like having kissed? what parts of their partner do they enjoy kissing? do they like leaving marks / having marks left on them?) 

H - Humiliation (does degradation and insults get them hot? do they get off on humiliating someone else? what kind of humiliation is good for them?) 

“... yes.” He’s super into being dominated and degradation.

O - Outdoor sex (have they ever done it in public? would they? where?)

“Also yes.” He’s an outdoorsy guy in all areas.

L - Lighting (are the lights on? off? do they have some kind of mood lighting set up?) 

“That’s something people care about?”

E - Extra info (any other fetishes? feet? leather? role playing? blood? fantasies that they might want to experience not on this list?)

Y - Yes, Master (what kinds of names are used during sex? do they like being called master / mistress, daddy, etc…? what names do they call their partner?) 

“I don’t really have a preference for this sorta thing, I guess. Sometimes I get called daddy and I’m lowkey into it?” He likes calling others daddy.

E - Extra info (any other fetishes? feet? leather? role playing? blood? fantasies that they might want to experience not on this list?)

He’s never really gotten into hard BDSM like leather and pup play but is interested...

S - Sleepy sex (do they give oral to wake their partner up? do they like receiving oral to wake up? do they like fucking their partner awake? being fucked awake? how about being fucked to sleep at night? do they have lazy morning sex?) 

SEXUAL PREFERENCES!

bold   —   applies always.

italic   —   applies sometimes.

INCLINATIONS   /   HABITS.

is submissive   |   is vers   |   is dominant  |   prefers to top   |   prefers to bottom   |   likes to switch   |   identifies as heterosexual   |   identifies as homosexual   |   identifies as bisexual   |   identifies as pansexual   |   identifies as demisexual   |   identifies as asexual   |   enjoys sex with men   |   enjoys sex with women   |   enjoys sex with multiple people at one time   |   initiates  |   waits for partner to initiate   |   spits   |   swallows   |   prefers sex in the morning   |   prefers sex at night   |   prefers sex any time  |   no sex drive   |   low sex drive   |   average sex drive   |   high sex drive  |   hypersexual

BODY   /   APPEARANCE.

small build   |   medium build  |   athletic build   |   muscular build  |   curvy build   |   wears boxer briefs  |   wears lingerie   |   goes  ‘commando’  | wears briefs | wears jocks |   shaves/waxes   |   doesn’t shave/wax   |  facial hair  |   clean shaven   |   1-5" in length   |   6-9" in length  |   10" or over in length

SOUNDS.

is silent/makes little to no sounds   |   is very quiet   |   is loud  |   grows in volume over time   |   bites hand/partner/pillow to muffle themselves    |   calls out partner’s name   |   curses   |   fakes/exaggerates   |   prefers a quiet partner |   prefers a loud partner   |   is turned on by dirty talk |   is turned off by dirty talk

TURN – ONS   /   KINKS.