As a 8h stellium, I'm constantly trying to piece together other's psyche and create an image in my head that fits beyond the mask that they try to put on, of course it can't be done for everyone but mostly everyone in my close circles gets the silent inspection, which makes sense, the whole need for 8h to feel secure, to compare their values against the world and bring changes accordingly just forces that compulsion, which is also why Virgos / placements frustrate me quite a bit. Not in a bad way, no, but Virgos are a lot more secretive than they're given credit for, not only that, they seem to be in this constant state of improving by themselves on themselves - and well, I might blame it on the mutable element but it's not even that, you won't necessarily see a Virgo talking extensively or even much about themselves unless they are certain to draw less attention or they know their company well. Put the three together, alongside the fact that my 12th in Virgo, and you've an utterly curious but confused me. I guess it IS a bit of a challenge, and Mars ruled things love challenges, alongside the confrontation of my own psyche.

You Know Who You Are

My Venus conjunct MC and squares my AC ass would (occasionally) like a Taurus or Leo or Scorpio Venus to love me and teach me how to love myself.

There was a recent guess my top three post on reddit based on one picture of the guy. A lot of folks were guessing the same group of signs (Pisces and Cancer came up a lot). Anyway no one was guessing the guy's sign but he was tacking on some really blatant questions about if anyone thought he was attractive. He ended up just telling us, and he had Leo Moon and Rising. It made me think about how I really think guessing signs based on a single picture is generally useless. But those attention seeking questions were SO telling.