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And if I don't see you there, where am I to see you?
Anthony Trollope, from Can You Forgive Her?
Just in case itâs not obvious to cishets
Heterosexuality is a sexuality
Cisgender is a gender
Itâs literally in the name
HeteroSEXUALITY
CisGENDER
Stop with the vague talk. Youâre not fooling anyone.
So again, maybe itâs me, but this seems like Hawkwomanâs looking for some super action.
A coloring of The Love Note by Konstantin Somov, for his 1907 erotic Rococo novel, Das Lesebuch der Marquise (The Reader of the Marquis), written with Franz Blei.Â
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Well, a baby isnât born into a sexuality or gender in the first place. Theyâre assigned one that theyâre expected to just accept is what and who they are. Conditioning them to see themselves a certain way whether they are that way or not. So whatâs the difference?
Youâre right, there is no child in the world that is explicitly any of these identity labels⌠So then they shouldnât be assigned one right from birth in the first place. How about we donât gender the baby as soon as it comes out of the womb regardless what genitalia they have? Maybe then they might not feel the need the change their gender. Because they wonât have one to âchangeâ in the first place.
These restrictive and limited identity labels of gender/sexuality are the issue. Your claim is that a 5 year old doesnât explicitly identify by any. Youâre right. But they are ASSIGNED to one before they even take a breath.
The answer is to abolish gender and sexuality identity labels altogether. Get rid of the notion that such concepts as âgenderâ and âsexualityâ exist. And that does include HETEROSEXUAL and CISGENDER because those are identity labels too. And let people identify and declare whatever gender or sexuality they feel like they are instead!
Adding on to what I said here: https://girl4music.tumblr.com/post/680682369927217153/well-a-baby-isnt-born-into-a-sexuality-or-gender
Well, a baby isnât born into a sexuality or gender in the first place. Theyâre assigned one that theyâre expected to just accept is what and
Itâs a radical way of thinkingâŚ. But I genuinely think this whole âgenderâ and âsexualityâ argument is pointless when none of the identity labels exist to begin with. We make them up! There is sex. There is body genetalia. There is DNA. There is chromosomes. All this exists. All well and good so far. But whoever in the hell said any of this had to be âmaleâ or âfemaleâ? Whoever in the hell said any of this had to be âheterosexualâ or âhomosexualâ? Where did this restrictive and limiting binary assignation come from?
I donât have a problem with the gender I was assigned with at birth. Iâve been very comfortable with it all throughout my life. But the point is I was ASSIGNED it. I never identified and declared myself for myself. Now thereâs people in the world that are uncomfortable with the gender they were assigned with at birth. Namely transgender and non-binary people. And, yes, sometimes as young as 5 years old. And the moment they identify and declare themselves differently from that assignation⌠theyâre told theyâre âwrongâ or âstupidâ or âcrazyâ. If they were never assigned any gender in the first place, this wouldnât be an issue. Yes, theyâd still feel uncomfortable in their body but that body wouldnât be defined as either âmaleâ or âfemaleâ because there would be no such distinction between them. So then they would have the opportunity to identify and declare what they FEEL they identify as. Who they FEEL they are. And the uncomfortableness they FEEL in their body would slowly ebb away. Telling somebody they are what they are when they donât FEEL like they are is the issue here. And that assigning or that telling happens RIGHT FROM BIRTH! From the moment youâre born.
Letâs analyze the term âASSIGNâ.
To assign something to someone means that it is not THEIRS already. They are given it to take on. They are expected to assume it. Like a post of duty in rank.
All children have assignations of gender and sexuality already. They may not have been talking about it or understanding it but they have it. It is already something theyâre conditioned to believe they are by the company they have around them. By their society. So maybe talking about gender and sexuality and helping the child to understand what and who they are is exactly what needs to be done as early as possible so they can identify it in themselves first. Maybe they do need to know and understand why they are already a âmanâ or âwomanâ. Maybe I did need to know and understand why I am a âwomanâ. Maybe I needed the right and agency to identify and declare that for myself before it was assigned to me. Iâm fairly sure I never would have identified as any other gender because like I said: Iâm very comfortable being a âwomanâ. But it would have been nice for me to figure that out for myself before I was told it. Before I was allocated a post of duty based on the appearance of my sex! I firmly believe identity is bullshit and not necessary for human interrelations. But if I HAVE to have one⌠if society will not let me navigate in my human experience without one⌠so be it, Iâll have one. But it should and it will be one I create for myself. Nobody else! And everybody should have that right and that agency to do the very same.