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it took a long time before the two of you even admitted to eachother that feelings were involved.

jj fell first.

you fell harder.

both of you were stubborn asf and didn’t want to admit it to not only eachother— but yourselves.

jj was in deep , deep denial.

eventually he was the first one to crack.

and at first , you claimed that he was just drunk and high and didn’t mean any of it and refused to listen to his love confession in the heat of the moment.

though you had replayed it in your head thousands of times and you still tear up about it even after being with eachother for so long.

jj is absolute mush when it comes to you.

any fear about love and relationships left him the second he got to call you his girlfriend.

he’s very understanding of your feelings , though , and he makes sure to constantly affirm his feelings towards you.

“you know i’m never goin’ anywhere , right? i’m in this for the long haul.”

jj is constantly telling you he appreciates you.

he thinks that means more to someone that just saying ‘i love you.’

he wants you to feel heard , appreciated and safe.

you try and push him away because you’re scared but even then , he sticks by your side.

“look— nothing you can do is gonna rid of me , alright? i love you. you’re it for me.”

you and jj’s relationship becomes on of the most healthiest relationships you’d ever been in.

he’s very patient with you and helps you open up more.