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Who tops more often?

Yun: Yunho chuckles, the corners of his eyes crinkling with glee. “Ah, yes. Finally we get to good stuff, yea?” He winks. “I had a feeling this one would come along sooner or later.” He smirks.

“Well, allow me to explain a bit. When Changmin and I first, shall we say, got together….I was the more experienced one in that regard.” He bites his lip, still grinning salaciously, knowing Changmin will likely kill him for divulging this information.

“So naturally, it started with me as the top. Once Changminnie got a bit more confident and discovered that I actually enjoyed being on the receiving end….let’s just say he took the ball and ran with it.” He chuckles.

“At this point, it’s almost 50/50, right down the middle. Seeing as how I’m always in charge at work, it’s nice to let go sometimes and let someone else take control.” He tilts his head in a thinking gesture. “If I had to pick a majority…it’d probably still be me, but by a very, very small margin. I like to think of Changminnie as my equal in every way.” He smiles, nodding. Min: He blinks and stares and blinks some more before he finally coughs and look away, as if pretending the question isn’t there. “Umm.”

He mutters something about how he just -knew- this would show up but doesn’t immediately answer, his face heating up at the thought of giving out such personal information. “I… Well… Umm.” Finally, he sighs and figures to hell with it.

“I used to say Yunho but… Umm… Well as we got closer and more comfortable, I got curious…way too curious. So uh.. yeah. Admittedly it might come down more to who gets turned on first, honestly.” He chuckles, sheepishly rubbing the back of his head.

“Well then, who’s ready to move on to another question~?” He speaks up louder, highly embarrassed.

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Which one is more romantic? Kisses or hugs? How often do you guys kiss and hug?

Yun:  

Yunho strokes his chin, thinking. "Hmm...it's hard to say who is more romantic, we're both pretty sappy." He winks, continuing. "But if I had to pick, I'd say it's probably me. I give Changdola gifts a lot, and I try to let him know I'm thinking about him even if we're separated."

"I also, as you may have noticed, like to spoil him...."

He sighs dramatically, "and I've been known to take him out on pretty over-the-top dates." He smiles. "So yes. I'd say myself for that one."

"Kisses or hugs?" He tilts his head, making a cute expression. "I'd say kisses. I love giving hugs, I really do. I hug friends and family all the time. But there's something just a little more special about kissing, especially with Changdola." He grins widely. "All kinds of kisses, even the cute ones just on the cheek. I'd never get tired of kissing him." "And as to the last question..." he giggles a little, eyes crinkling as he smiles. "Obviously in public, we can't show that type of affection very often. And we've both learned to be very careful about such things."

"In private, however, it's a different story." He winks. "We're always very physically affectionate, and it's initiated about equally. We love being able to express our feelings that way."

Min:

He hums in thought before smiling brightly. "You ask who is more romantic? Without even a second doubt, I'd flag down Yunho. I can be sappy myself, but I'm typically the more playful one."

"When it comes to the grand gestures and the extravagant dates? Yun's perfected that art. Legitimately. I'm in a constant state of wonder and awe around him when it comes time to celebrate an event, because he certainly never holds back on the royal treatments and making me feel like the most special and privileged person on the planet and I'll admit...." sheepishly, he chuckles, grinning. "I'm more than happy to be doted on."

Clearing his throat, he continues. "On a more serious note, I'm not sure even he realizes just how lucky I feel to be able to be on the receiving end. I mean,"  flushing a little, he chuckles to himself. "Girls would do just about anything to get with someone like that, but hey, so sorry for the luck, he's taken."

The expression turns into a playful and snarky grin as he sticks out his tongue. The next part of the question has him laughing rather childishly. "As for the hugs and kisses? Ironically enough for Yunho's answer, I'm the hugger." he snickers.

"Especially because yeah, it's easier to get away with in public. Nothing wrong with kissing and yes, I heavily enjoy kissing Yunho," he winks, "but I'm kind of a koala.... to be quite honest.... I hug and glomp and cling at any opportunity, so yeah..." he coughs softly.

"Like Yunho said, it's hard to get a lot of opportunity being so busy, but you can count on knowing that behind closed doors, it's hard to find us not being physically affectionate. That is the honest truth." He nods to conclude the explanation.

Thanks for the question, keep 'em coming!!

Changmin can be a bit of a social butterfly. How does Yunho handle any jealousy? And how does Changmin assure him that he's staying faithful?

Yun:

He chuckles a little, nodding. "Ah, I was wondering when a question like this would come up. What's funny is, usually Changminnie is the one getting possessive."

He winks, continuing, "But that's not to say I don't have my own possessive streak."

He tilts his head, thinking. "There have been times when I've gotten jealous, I can't lie."

"Min is known to get friendly and a bit physical with those he's close to. We're pretty good at communicating though....I blame that on years of knowing each other, " he winks, "and if I ever feel that way, I simply tell him. And he's more than happy to remind me where his heart lies....usually in rather interesting ways." Yunho winks, a coy smirk spreading over his face.

"But in all seriousness..." He smiles softly, "there were times in the past, rough patches, where we didn't have the faith in each other that we do now. But after getting through all of that, and being together so long, I believe we have a really solid relationship, and we trust each other, and that's what's most important."

Min:

Thinking on this for a second, he taps his foot, humming.

"Well. To be completely one-hundred percent honest with you. I don't really have to reassure Yunho that I won't ever stray, because we're more than close enough to have trust and faith in each other."

"Sure, there might be little slips, maybe eyeing someone attractive, but honestly that's as far as I'd ever let it go. Unless we both erm.. Talk about someone else being..." Involved" in the mix," he snickers. "That's a different case."

"But, otherwise? Yunho's the only one in my heart and eyes so~" he ducks his head, chuckling. "If you'll excuse me, I need to go drown in my mush pile of mush now..."

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“They’re not used to seeing us attached at the ass. But yea. Speaking of which…” he bucks back against Changmin playfully. “You seem to be a rather big fan of mine…” Yunho notes with a chuckle.

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